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How To Wear Brown In 9 Easy And Stylish Ways

When it comes to clothing, brown’s name is mud. Brown shoes, fine. A belt, sure. But pretty much anything else in the colour has traditionally been shunned as unwelcome and unflattering. Brown is ugly, they say. It conjures up images of everything regrettable about 1970s style.

That hasn’t stopped the world’s best designers from splashing it all over anything they could get their hands on it recent seasons. Now brown is inescapable. It’s everywhere. And having witnessed its rebirth firsthand, it actually has a lot going for it.

Brown is warm and surprisingly flattering. It also pairs well with a wide array of colours and lends itself nicely to other trends currently sweeping through menswear, particularly textured fabrics and mid-century style.

The issue lies in how to wear brown. For all its plus points, it’s notoriously tricky to get right without looking like you’ve just stepped through a time portal straight from the set of Starsky and Hutch. But it can be done. Here’s how.

How To Style Brown

Pulling off this divisive colour in a way that doesn’t make it look like you’ve started taking style cues from your high-school geography teacher relies on a number of factors. Notably, picking the right shades, knowing what garments they work on, and having a knowledge of how to pair them with a variety of colours.

“Despite being shunned from the fashion scene for decades, brown doesn’t have to be difficult to wear,” says celebrity stylist Harriet Byczok. “There are so many different shades of brown that you can easily find something in your wardrobe to match.”

All those shades, from chocolate to cereal hues, mean that tonal outfits work well. “Tonal outfits are a great way to look fashionable without trying too hard,” says Byczok. “Try wearing a darker, chocolate-coloured suit with lighter shirt and tan shoes. Or, if tailoring isn’t your thing, try a darker brown shade pair of slim fit chinos with a camel coat and knitwear of a lighter shade.”

Byczok also stresses the importance of using a variety of textures. “Even something as simple as adding a suede shoe into the mix can work wonders. I actually think there are a few fabrics that actually work better in brown. Suede, leather and corduroy, for example.”

The Right Brown For Your Skin Tone

Are you guilty of listening with one ear to your paler-skinned pals moan about being washed out by white and beige? Well, it’s finally your turn to be cautious about colour. If you’re tanned or darker-skinned and pick the wrong shade of brown, from a distance you’ll look semi-naked at best, full birthday suit at worst.

Luckily, it’s simple to avoid faux flasher status. Just check the shade of the item against your skin tone: bring the garment up to your forearm to see if it’s significantly lighter or darker than your skin. If it’s not, stick it back on the hanger and start again, using these nine failsafe brown garments as your starting point.

9 Ways To Wear Brown

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Brown Coat

Too many men have an outerwear collection which consists solely of navy, black and grey. Don’t get us wrong, they’re great, but ignoring the wealth of other colours on offer is an unforgivable style offence in our book. We love camel coats as much as the next outerwear fanatic, but if you want to take your top layer to the next level, don’t overlook brown.

“Brown is a very classic masculine colour,” says Delphine Ninous, a creative director with the likes of Belstaff on her CV. “It can look evaluated and edgy at the same time.” When it gets colder, a brown oversized coat is your sartorial safety blanket. Avoid anything too tailored and look for dropped rounded shoulders. Get tactile with your textile, too. Shearling, fleece and rich wool all look great in brown.

A brown winter coat is also extremely versatile. Worn over a cream crew neck knit and jeans, you’re ready for the weekend; sat on top of a grey suit for work, it gives off strong Richard Gere in American Gigolo vibes, which is a life goal as far as we’re concerned.

How To Wear A Brown Coat

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Brown Suit

It’s no coincidence that brown is enjoying a revival at the same time 1970s style is getting a second crack at the whip. And that means that when it comes to brown suit, the internet’s your oyster. Brown tailoring may not be many people’s type on paper, but trust us (or Ryan Gosling – a confirmed fan), you might just swipe right for this season’s handsome suits in chocolate, caramel and tan shades.

As always with tailoring, you’ll need to consider the cut (take it to a tailor), but the shade is just as important. If you want to go for a full suit, dark brown will get the most wear – and it’s not a flash-in-the-pan fad buy, either. “Brown has always been a classic choice in menswear tailoring,” says Danny Ching, a menswear designer who has worked at the likes of Aquascutum, Hardy Amies and Dunhill. “With new ways of styling tailoring, it has re-emerged amongst the countless grey and navy suits men continually wear to work, social events and weddings.” Timeless yet not overdone? That’s menswear gold.

Particularly since brown tailoring is hard to mess up. “Brown is a rich, versatile colour that helps to enhance and enrich contrasting colours that it’s paired with,” says Ching. “Given its neutral underpinnings, it can be styled with virtually any hue, though it tends to work particularly well with shades of blue and green.” Also try tonal tans and dark neutrals including black. And because brown is slightly more casual, it works nicely with knitwear when you want to dress your suit down.

How To Wear A Brown Suit

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Brown Trousers

In Britain, you’ll often hear something particularly frightening referred to as “a brown trouser moment”. However, you don’t have to be attempting your first skydive or watching The Exorcist in order to don a pair. In fact, brown bottoms are a solid everyday alternative to jeans or more traditional navy or beige chinos. The secret to getting it right is in how you style them.

“From nutmeg to tobacco, brown trousers are the new black trousers,” says Richard Biedul, a male model and influencer who has worked for the likes of Drake’s, Ted Baker and Edward Sexton. “Transitioning into your wardrobe requires an astute eye though: I think brown looks best colour matched. Partner your trousers with a top half item similar in tone, texture or pattern to create a rich, sumptuous look.”

You need to add a few hits of contrast though, to avoid looking like a cosplay Jedi knight. “Adding an element of off-white, such as a shirt worn under a knit or a pair of white trainers, will help break up the colour block,” adds Biedul. If it’s totally tonal, it’s totally easy.

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Brown Sweater

Brown knitwear is pretty unloved. We get it. When done badly, it can look like you’ve raided the lost property box or remind you of the oatmeal cardigan you suspect your grandfather never washed. Done well, however, it’s suave and very much on-trend this season.

“Brown is the perfect colour for autumn and winter as it nods to what’s going on outside,” says stylist Phill Tarling, who has dressed the likes of Tom Hardy. Try pairing a rust-coloured sweater with mid-wash denim and desert boots. Or camel with black jeans and layered with a white T-shirt would work nicely too. The main thing is to make sure that if you’re going to match with black, the shade of brown shouldn’t be too dark.

Brown knitwear won’t just pair handsomely with your wardrobe staples – it can get a little more lively with the right treatment. “If you’re looking for a more trend-led way to wear brown knitwear, take a leaf from Mother Nature and team with moss green trousers to nail two of this season’s most important colours in one outfit,” adds Tarling. Stick on a pair of white lace-up sneakers and job done.

How To Wear A Brown Sweater

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Brown Jacket

We’ve already established that brown is the perfect colour for playing with different textures. And this is something jackets are equally suited to. By putting the two together, you can guarantee you’re onto a winner, whether you favour a bomber, biker or field jacket.

A brown jacket is a bona fide autumn essential. Keep it classic with suede, an Oxford shirt and chinos. Or go for a sportier vibe by opting for a brown varsity or coach jacket, a plain tee and leather sneakers.

Brown also provides a less ‘biker-y’ alternative to black if you want to try a leather jacket but don’t want to look like an extra from Grease. To steer it in the other direction, try pairing one with a rollneck (you’ll never catch a Hell’s Angel in one of those) smart trousers and a pair of black derby boots.

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Brown Shirt

A solid selection of shirts is the foundation upon which to build the rest of your wardrobe. With that in mind, they should be not just well-fitted and good quality, but also varied.

A brown shirt is a great addition as it can work in several different ways. First off, it can be worn on its own, buttoned up and paired with either smart trousers and shoes or jeans and trainers. Secondly, it can be worn as a light top layer, open over a plain T-shirt for a casual look. Thirdly it can be worn as an additional layer under your winter coat and on top of a roll neck. And last but not least, as part of a tonal outfit.

In order to get the tonal look right, try pairing a chocolate-coloured shirt with a camel overshirt, you can contrast this with a pair of off-white trousers, while tying it all together with some black Chelsea boots.

How To Wear A Brown Shirt

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Brown Blazer

When picking a new blazer, your go-to colours most likely look a little something like this: black, navy, grey or, if you’re really feeling crazy, a bit of beige. However, by ruling out brown you deny yourself the opportunity to begin functioning on a whole new level of nonchalance. Brown tailoring radiates an aura of casual cool that the usual suspects will never be able to replicate.

For a fresh, autumnal spin on smart casual, try teaming a brown blazer with a tonal roll neck and contrasting the two with a pair of white or off-white trousers. You can then tie it all together with a pair of premium white sneakers.

As we’ve said, brown will always look good as part of a tonal outfit. However, brown blazers (and tailoring in general) also work very nicely with denim and chambray. A brown blazer, chambray shirt, tonal blue tie and navy trousers are a surefire showstopper.

How To Wear A Brown Blazer

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Brown Shoes

After NSFW content, we’re quietly confident “how to wear brown shoes” is up there in Google’s most searched terms. While things will change slightly season on season, there are some hard and fast rules, which you’d do well to commit to memory.

“The humble brown shoe can be a tricky piece of footwear to have in your collection, always being the second choice behind the staple black Derby or brogue,” says Reiss brand stylist Paul Higgins. “Fear not though, dressing your brown shoes is as simple as pairing them with a navy or pinstripe suit, which is a sleek, timeless combination.”

If you want to get all #menswear on us though, it’s time for some brown sky thinking. Higgins recommends going double with your brown to give things a more trend-led feel. “Rev up some classic tan shoes by combining them with light brown tailoring. Seen from the likes of high-end designers such as Gucci and Camoshita to high-street giants Zara and Massimo Dutti, tonal brown looks are surprisingly easy to wear – just make sure your brown shoe is a lighter or darker shade than your suit.”

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Brown Tie

Brown may not be the most common colour when it comes to neckties, but once you see how good it can look, it’s difficult to see why. Rocking a brown tie is a neat way to make a style statement without sticking out with a sore thumb. It lets people know you’re not afraid of experimenting with your wardrobe, but also that you know where to draw the line in order to keep things tasteful.

At first thought, it’s tricky to imagine what might work with a brown tie, but in reality, the options are plentiful. Brown lends itself well to blue, so pairing with a navy or pale blue shirt or tailoring (or both) is always going to be a good option. For a more winter-friendly option, pick a knitted tie and team it with a crisp white shirt. You can then build on the theme of texture by wearing it with a thick wool suit. Incorporate a pattern for bonus points.

Remember, ties aren’t just for the office. You can dress the look down by switching the blazer out for a more casual jacket to make things a bit more relaxed. Try something like a smart bomber jacket for best results.

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Connect With Your Intuition With This 15-Minute Movement Flow

Join certified yoga instructor Sophie Jaffe for a 15-minute intuitive movement flow that will make you feel in tune with your body. In this routine, you’ll work on a series of stretches, lunges, yoga poses, plank moves, and more. Prepare to take some deep breaths and feel relaxed by the end of this routine. All you need is a mat to get started!

Jaffe’s outfit: Carbon38

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Kourtney Kardashian Wears Blazer With No Shirt For Dinner With Travis Barker and Kids

On Saturday, June 4, Kourtney Kardashian stepped out with her new husband Travis Barker and their blended family for dinner at Nobu and she was dressed to impress. All in black, Kourtney was wearing a large blazer that buttoned over her semi-sheer bralette and a short skirt that was just visible through the buttoned lapels. She accessorized with a small black purse and a pair of sandal heels.

Kourtney had her hair slicked up with a few pieces framing her face, a hot red manicure, and a nude lip. She posted photos of herself getting ready for the night on Instagram, so fans could see all the pieces before the final outfit came together. In several of the photos she’s talking into a phone, and captioned the carousel of images with, “Hi yes this is Mrs. Barker, how may I help you?”

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In the comments, Barker wrote, “I got a few ideas.”

The couple recently returned from Italy, where they hosted friends and family for a weekend in the seaside town of Portofino. It was their third wedding ceremony after having a whirlwind wedding in Las Vegas and then a legally binding one in Santa Barbara, California.

The couple has been doing their best to blend their family. Kourtney has three children with her ex-boyfriend, Scott Disick: Mason, Reign, and Penelope. Barker has two children, Landon and Alabama. In an episode of their Hulu show The Kardashians, she told her mother Kris Jenner that they are hoping to have children together, but have struggled with IVF and fertility issues.

“I think that we want it so badly because we want to make something together,” she said. In another episode, she talked about what a great dad Barker is.

“Travis is really an amazing father,” she said. “It’s one of the reasons I fell in love with him. He is very, very patient. I think because we’ve all known each other, it does make it easier to blend our families. It’s all I could ever want.”

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I Finally Gave Old Navy’s Famed PowerPress Leggings a Try, and They’re Worth the Hype

Hi. Marathoner in training, here! As someone who runs daily, I’ve been trying and testing as many pairs of workout leggings as I can get my hands on (without breaking the bank, that is). One of my favorite places to purchase them — and all of my activewear essentials, really — is Old Navy. Yet I recently realized that I had never tried the brand’s beloved High-Waisted PowerPress Leggings ($12-$30, originally $30). With a nearly perfect five-star rating, they’re arguably the most buzzworthy of the retailer’s leggings selection, so I knew I’d be doing both you and me a disservice by not giving them a well-deserved try. So I set out to change that and added them to my cart. A complete breakdown of my thoughts ahead.

What I Like About These Leggings

A fun fact about me is that I wear exclusively high-waisted, full-length leggings, so it only makes sense that this top-rated pair made its way into my activewear collection. I tested them out on a three-mile run on an unusually hot May day in Minnesota and found them to be incredibly moisture wicking. (A damn blessing, because this writer was sweaty AF.) What’s more, they stayed put throughout my whole run, meaning I didn’t have to keep tugging on them to stay up, which was a welcome treat. Check plus plus.

What’s Worth Noting About These Leggings

These leggings are made of 85 percent polyester and 15 percent spandex, and, being totally honest, this combination isn’t usually my go-to material for workout clothes. I prefer highly supportive and elastic nylon-based silhouettes, as opposed to the soft-textured fabric, which I personally deem more suited for lounge-worthy athleisure. Take my opinion with a grain of salt, though, as hundreds — and maybe even thousands — of people do work out in them.

Another thing to note is that the brand markets these leggings as having a high level of compression, and I can attest that they do, but for polyester. That means you won’t get that same glued-to-your-body feel that you do with a nylon pair. Ultimately, it just comes down to personal preference.

Would I Recommend These Leggings?

Yes! If polyester leggings are your jam, you’ll adore this pair. In fact, I’m willing to bet you’ll be yet another of the brand’s 4,600+ five-star reviewers. Yep, they’re that popular. I can’t give these leggings anything less than five stars because they live up to the hype — especially when it comes to keeping sweat at bay.

Rating: 5

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Kate Middleton and Prince William Didn’t Intend to ‘Slight’ Meghan and Harry by Missing Lili’s First Birthday

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry’s youngest, little Lilibet, celebrated her first birthday this weekend. The landmark birthday happened to coincide with Queen Elizabeth’s Platinum Jubilee, which means everyone was kept pretty busy. Entertainment Tonight was told by a source close to the royal family that most of them were unable to celebrate with the Duke and Duchess of Sussex on the day because they were traveling for various events, but it was not purposeful.

The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, Duchess Sophie, and Prince Edward were all in different parts of the U.K., as working royal family members were tasked with visiting people hosting events to celebrate the Queen. The Cambridges, along with Prince George and Princess Charlotte, headed to Cardiff Castle in Wales for various performances honoring Queen Elizabeth.

“It’s simply a coincidence they fell on the same day,” the source said, meaning Lilibet’s birthday. “There was no intended slight.”

There have been rumors of some tension between Prince Harry and his brother Prince William and it was noted that they weren’t seated with one another during an event on Friday at St. Paul’s Cathedral. Still, the Cambridge’s remembered to wish Lilibet a happy birthday on social media.

“Wishing a very happy birthday to Lilibet, turning one today!” they wrote on Twitter.

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The Duke and Duchess of Cornwall wished her a happy birthday as well, as did the official “Royal Family” account.

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Harry and Meghan reportedly planned to spend their daughter’s birthday at Frogmore Cottage and then visit the queen at Windsor Castle. The monarch met Lilibet for the first time on Thursday, June 2, just after Trooping the Colour. It was also a chance for her to see her three-year-old grandson, Archie, again. Lilibet was born in Montecito, California, where Harry and Meghan moved after stepping away from their roles as working members of the royal family.

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I Became My Mom’s Caregiver at 22. I Wouldn’t Change Our Relationship For Anything.

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DeAirah Robinson was a senior in college when her mother Felicia, who DeAirah lived with in Georgia, asked her to feel a lump on her breast. “Our first reaction was, ‘Oh, it’s probably from the bra being a little too tight,'” Felicia tells POPSUGAR. But when the lump didn’t go away, Felicia decided to get it checked out, and in December 2017, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. From there, “everything just started moving so fast,” DeAirah remembers. By February 1, Felicia was at MD Anderson Cancer Center in Texas getting a unilateral mastectomy. The day after the surgery, DeAirah flew to Texas to help.

DeAirah supported her mom through her early recovery, then flew back to Georgia, where her schoolwork was waiting. “I thought [the mastectomy] was the end of the journey,” she tells POPSUGAR. But on Valentine’s Day 2018, Felicia called with a devastating update: the mastectomy hadn’t removed all of the cancer, and she’d need to get chemotherapy too. DeAirah had just driven home from class when she got the news. “I sat in the car and cried,” she remembers. “Knowing that she would go through this challenge … it was difficult to process.”

DeAirah had recently changed majors and had a full course load, but she instantly began planning how she could add taking care of her mom to her to-do list. “I didn’t really second guess, or think about it. I jumped into action,” she says.

DeAirah is among a growing number of Millennials who’ve taken on caregiving roles for loved ones. A a 2018 AARP report found that 10 million Millennials are caregivers, but that number may be growing. One in four Gen Z and Millennial caregivers were in caregiving roles for the first time during the pandemic, according to the Global Carer Well-Being Index.

This is no small task. Millennial caregivers spend about 21 hours per week on care-related duties, according to the AARP report — the equivalent of a part-time job. As a result, Millennial and Gen Z caregivers often end up balancing school, work, and sometimes parenthood with their caregiving duties. And 77% of caregivers say providing emotional support is one of their top responsibilities, a survey survey conducted by Embracing Carers found. The time and emotional energy that caregiving requires often means that people end up sacrificing their personal lives in some way, and over half of caregivers ages 18 to 34 say the role negatively impacted their long-term career goals.

“”I just knew my duty was going to be to care for my mother, attend her appointments, and ensure that she was good emotionally and mentally during this journey.”

For DeAirah, making her mom her top priority didn’t feel like a decision. “I just knew my duty was going to be to care for my mother, attend her appointments, and ensure that she was good emotionally and mentally during this journey,” she says. Her father worked nights, and she was commuting to college from home, but she still managed to accompany Felicia to most, if not all, of her doctor’s appointments, which ended up being invaluable: DeAirah would remind Felicia to tell the doctor about symptoms or side effects she’d experienced since her last visit, and helped her remember and understand all the medical information they received. “We’d get home and discuss, ‘What did they say?’ or ‘Okay, now I have to get this shot — what does that mean? What are those side effects?’ So we were constantly trying to read up and learn ahead of time what I was going to be facing to see how much involvement I was going to need,” Felicia says.

At one point, Felicia even moved into her daughter’s bedroom, sleeping on a recliner chair so she could be closer to DeAirah. “The first chemo hit me really, really hard,” Felicia says. “So [DeAirah] did a lot of consoling and positive talking and just kind of nurturing me at that time. The roles kind of reversed from being a mother to your daughter to your daughter mothering you.”

Although DeAirah was eager to help, coping with the situation could feel isolating. “I didn’t really have a go-to person to talk to about the situation,” DeAirah says. She was able vent to friends, but because she didn’t know anyone who’d been in a similar caretaker role, “I felt like they didn’t really get it,” DeAirah says. Loneliness is a huge source of burnout among caregivers in general, and The New York Times reports that it may be especially prevalent among younger adults. Even if their friends are going through similar experiences, they may be less likely to talk about it, and resources aimed at supporting caregivers are often targeted at older people. To keep her spirits up, DeAirah often relied on her faith and prayer, as well as writing. “I’d journal to myself if I found myself getting overwhelmed, or anxious.”

At one point, DeAirah considered taking a break from school. “I wanted to take a semester off in the spring semester to focus on caring for my mother, but she insisted that I stay in school,” DeAirah says. While she’s ultimately grateful, it was also stressful, she says: “I had that pressure of wanting to finish on time, but also wanting to make sure she was good.”

Finally, in June 2018, Felicia rang the bell at her treatment center to celebrate the end of her chemotherapy. “Seeing her ring that bell was just pure joy,” DeAirah says.

“I still knew physically she was kind of different and probably still felt different,” DeAirah says, but that didn’t stop them from marking the occasion with goodie bags for the nurses, a number four balloon to signify the rounds of chemotherapy Felicia completed, and a nice family dinner. “I just wanted her to feel celebrated,” DeAirah says.

When the COVID-19 pandemic began, however, DeAirah and Felicia were met with a new set of challenges. After finishing up chemo, Felicia was put on monthly, then quarterly injections of hormone blockers. Then, COVID struck — and suddenly, DeAirah was no longer able to accompany her mother into office visits and act as an advocate. Additionally, Felicia lost her job, and with it, her health insurance. The additional insurance she purchased still wasn’t enough to cover her continued care. It only brought the cost of her hormone blocker injections down from $5000 to $1500 per shot, for instance.

The pandemic’s impact on caregivers is undeniable. Nearly two in three people who provide caretaking support to loved ones say that the pandemic has made their work more difficult, according to Embracing Carers, and 77% of caregivers ages 18 to 34 say the pandemic made them feel more burned out than before. What’s more, in a survey of 952 people with chronic illness, 15.7% said that they faced a loss of income during the pandemic, reports the International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health. Financial strain can be devastating for anyone, but especially those with high medical costs.

The challenges posed by the pandemic led Felicia and DeAirah to seek additional support. “I had to rely on a social worker for the first time,” Felicia tells POPSUGAR. While it was a difficult decision, it ended up being a game changer for both women. “[The social worker] helped us navigate through some resources that were available that I would have never known about or people are too prideful to reach out to those type of organizations,” Felicia says. Meeting the social worker also inspired DeAirah to go to graduate school for social work herself, after graduating college in July 2019. “I told her, I kind of think it’s God’s plan, because she was so close to me going through it,” Felicia says.

Despite the emotional and logistical challenges she faced while caring for her mother, DeAirah says that she wouldn’t change the experience for anything. While DeAirah wouldn’t have thought she could get any closer to her mom than she already had been before her diagnosis, caregiving “enhanced our relationship. And as I’ve gotten older, it’s just gotten better,” she says.

Interestingly, Millennials are more likely than other age groups to say that caregiving is rewarding. But that doesn’t mean they don’t get overwhelmed. Caregiver burnout is real, especially now.

Thats why it’s so important to build a supportive network. For DeAirah, she eventually told a group of women at church about her struggles. “They were very supportive and jumped in and asked if I needed anything. They reached out to my mom as well … and they just covered me in prayer,” she says. You can find support groups using the Family Caregiver Alliance or The National Alliance for Caregiving. Both organizations also provide info on financial resources and in-person events and retreats for caregivers and their loved ones.

Read more about Felicia and DeAirah’s story on their website and in their co-authored book, “Surviving Pink.”

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Hailey Bieber Wears Summery Crop Top During New York City Heat Wave

On Friday evening, Hailey Bieber enjoyed a hot night in New York City looking cool and summery in a tight white crop top that bared her toned torso. The simple shirt was accessorized with purple cat-eye sunglasses and a nude leather handbag.

She was wearing baggy, olive green pants, which she later revealed belonged to her husband, pop star Justin Bieber. Hailey posted a picture of herself in the mirror on her Instagram Stories in her outfit that day, writing over it in text, “Stole husband’s pants this morning.”

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Hailey was seen out with Justin that same night, still wearing his pants. The Daily Mail reports that they shared a little PDA at the restaurant Cipriani after Justin performed at the Barclays Center in Brooklyn. Photos of her husband in the restaurant show him in a tight white tank and baseball cap. In pics of the couple walking down the street together, he’s wearing bright orange from his pants to his hoodie to a vest over the hoodie.

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Hailey recently opened up in a YouTube video on the last day of Mental Health Awareness month, saying, “It’s something that I felt not sure of in the beginning; but the more I’ve grown my relationship with my therapist, it has been such a game changer for me.”

She continued, “And it’s a space where I feel really safe to be able to talk about what’s going on in my mind, say things out loud and feel safe and not feel judged.”

Hailey went on to say that she has a push-pull relationship with social media and the constant feedback, both good and bad, that she gets from it.

“I’m somebody who struggles with people-pleasing and really wanting everybody to like me and caring a lot about what people have to say and what they think,” she said. “But also, I appreciate social media and I think it’s a beautiful tool to be able to connect with people… and I’m in a space where I’m trying to have the healthiest relationship with social media that I possible can.”

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Wearing Accent Earrings by Erickson Beamo – From the Vogue Closet – Vogue

In this episode, a Vogue fashion assistant shares her current obsession—the accent earring. Just because they are not meant to be worn every day doesn’t mean you need a formal occasion to put on your favorite pair.

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Fashion Show – Fall 2013 Ready-to-Wear: Dries van Noten

Runway, backstage, and front-row footage from the Paris show. Watch the Fall 2013 ready-to-wear Dries van Noten fashion show footage from Style.com. Want more? Visit Style.com for more runway shows, fashion trends, shopping guides, and news about models and designers.

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Bradley Cooper Speaks French but Annoys Sienna Miller Anyway – Exclusives – Burnt

In this exclusive clip from Burnt, chef Adam Jones (Cooper) can’t quite pull off a good first impression on fellow chef Helene (Miller).

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9 Of The Best Ball Trimmers To Keep you Nick-free and Carefree (2022 Edition)

Shaving your balls is serious business. One false slip and you could end up in a painful – not to mention, rather messy – and embarrassing situation.

But, while making your scrotum slick and smooth is somewhat of an anxiety-driven affair, fortunately, the world has moved on from using clunky hair clippers or garden sheers to conduct a little manscaping.

A good ball trimmer will make your scrotal region look tidy and feel great while significantly reducing the risk of irritation or worse, injury.

There are plenty of manscaping products on the market, but when you’re tackling such a delicate part of your body, how do you know which ball trimmer to trust?

Knowing which ball hair trimmer to choose isn’t an easy task—but never fear, we’re here to make your decision easier. Read on to discover our official rundown of the best ball trimmer—or trimmers—money can buy.

Before we embark on the best ball trimmer journey, it’s worth noting that these products will only prove effective if you get your preparation right.

So, to get things off to the best possible start, read our full guide on how to trim your balls.

Ready? Time to dive right in. 

Our Top Picks

Compact, ergonomic, and waterproof, this slick ball trimmer from Meridian is great for every hair type and ball size—even the coarsest of pubes. With two guard settings, you can choose which length you want to trim your balls or pubic hairs and with 90 minutes of battery life, there’s plenty of time to get the job done between charges.

Water-resistant: Yes | Battery Life: 90 minutes

What we like:

  • The ball trimmer’s compact ergonomic design
  • The superior water resistance 
What we don’t like:

  • While you don’t need to change them often, the replacement blades are quite pricey

Sporting a small slimline design, Manscaped’s Lawn Mower 3.0 beard trimmer is brilliant for men with hairier than average balls and groins as it can get to those hard-to-reach places with ease. 

Plus, as this trimmer is equipped with Skin Safe Technology and is designed for rinsing with water, you can sculpt away with confidence while cleaning your blade with complete convenience.

Water-resistant: Yes | Battery Life: 90 minutes

What we like

  • The trimmers slimline design and manscaping versatility
  • The Skin Safe technology and sturdy guards
What we don’t like

  • Although this is great for hairy gents, if you have extra thick or coarse hair, you might need something a little more heavy-duty

This tidy little pocket rocket boasts four robust guard lengths and is fully water resistant, meaning you can use it in the shower. In addition to shaving your balls and pubis with pinpoint precision, this versatile trimmer is also great for cleaning up your chest, back, neck, and armpits.

Water-resistant: Yes | Battery Life: 90 minutes 

What we like

  • The extensive guard choice and general versatility
  • The fact it is equipped with anti-cut blades
What we don’t like

  • The fact that you may have to change the blades more regularly than some other ball trimmers

No, your eyes don’t deceive you, Manscaped has made our best ball trimmer list twice—this time with the Lawn Mower 4.0. This rather epic trimmer is equipped with all of the 3.0 version’s perks, but its design is even more aesthetically-pleasing and easy to handle. Plus, it comes with additional guard options and a cool charging light.

Water-resistant: Yes | Battery Life: 90 minutes

What we like

  • The ball trimmer’s amazing design
  • The fact that it offers multiple guard options
What we don’t like

  • If you’re looking for something a little cheaper, the Lawn Mower 3.0 will do just fine

If you struggle with hand-eye coordination, The Ballber From Happy Nuts will help you achieve a neat, clean, and cut-free shave. With two cutting sides, a 30-degree pivoting head, and a blade that’s kind to the curves, this is a great ball trimmer for all seasons.

Water-resistant: Yes | Battery Life: 150 minutes

What we like

  • The trimmer’s dual-action rotating head and blade
  • The excellent battery length
What we don’t like

  • If you’re looking for a more traditional trimmer or a product with more guard options, this probably isn’t the best choice

This trimmer for your balls is affordable and comes with a load of cool features including a pivoting head, a hypoallergenic skin safety blade, a sweet stand, three guard sizes, and 60 to 90 minutes of battery life. This great little ball trimmer is also shower-safe and often comes with a free foil blade.

Water-resistant: Yes | Battery Life: 60 – 90 minutes

What we like

  • The hypoallergenic safety blade
  • The solid balance of quality and price point
What we don’t like

  • The pivoting blade may not be for everyone

This sleek handheld ball trimmer offers easy USB charging and a battery life of at least 60 minutes. The trimmer’s smart design is also built to reduce hair pulling and scrotal skin irritation—it’s also highly water resistant and has an ornamental quality when on the stand.

Water-resistant: Yes | Battery Life: 60 minutes

What we like

  • The USB charging capabilities
  • The sleek design and two robust guards
What we don’t like

  • If you have coarse hair, you might want something a little more heavy duty

This punchy trimmer from Ballsy has two changeable heads: one for manscaping the torso or above and one specifically for your nuts (and that general area). Not only does this nifty number have a dedicated charging base, but the body trimmer head has four settings and the ball grooming head has three settings.

Water-resistant: Yes | Battery Life: 60 – 90 minutes

What we like

  • The choice of trimmer heads and guard settings
  • The charging base and slimline design
What we don’t like

  • Some gentleman might prefer something a little chunkier in their hand (we mean the trimmer handle)

Another ball trimmer brand that has made the cut for a second time is Mangroomer—this time, it’s the Lithium Max. The genius thing about this nutscaping device is its double-ended design. At one end, you have an ergonomic foil-based trimmer and at the other, you have a guarded ball and pubic hair groomer with eight different blade lengths. Oh, it’s also shower safe and comes with a free bonus foil.

Water-resistant: Yes | Battery Life: 90 minutes

What we like

  • The dual-ended groomer and trimmer capabilities
  • The fact that this bad boy comes equipped with eight guarded blade lengths
What we don’t like

  • Not everyone necessarily needs a dual-action trimmer for their balls

What to look for in a ball trimmer

You know how to trim your balls and which ball trimmers are the best to buy right now. To help you cement your decision and achieve scrotum-grooming glory, here are the key attributes to look for in a quality ball trimmer.

Water resistance

As it’s best to trim your privates when your balls are wet, choosing a trimmer that is water resistant or shower safe is your best bet. Not only is this safer in general, but a water-resistant trimmer will prove far more convenient, resulting in a cleaner, more even finish.

Battery life

There’s little point in opting for a corded ball trimmer in the age of the rechargeable battery. Cords are clunky and hazardous, so opting for a ball trimmer with a rechargeable battery is a must. 

That said, you should always check the battery life and ensure it offers at least 60 minutes of trimming action. Okay, it might not take an hour to trim your balls, but the last thing you want to do is rush or have to recharge your trimmer after every use.

Guard settings

Depending on the look you’re going for (smooth and silky or short and neat, for example), you should consider how many guard settings your potential ball trimmer offers. If you want to sculpt your ball hair and pubis in a particular way or you have thicker hair, opting for at least two to three-guard settings is advisable.

Warranty

When you’re investing in an important electronic item like a trimmer for your balls, getting one with a decent warranty is a good idea, if possible. Most trimmers provide a warranty of one to two years, but you should always check before you hit the buy button and make that big ball scaping commitment.

FAQ

    • A ball trimmer is a very specially-made male grooming device with blades, functionality, and guards designed to handle the delicate skin of the scrotum safely—and with pinpoint precision.

      If you’re looking to do a little manscaping down there, using reliable ball trimmers is highly advisable. Don’t use regular beard or hair trimmers, or you could cut your scrotum and cause damage.

      • To use a ball trimmer safely and with success, you first need to prep the area by taking some scissors and (very) carefully trimming down the hairs to a savable length. Once you’ve done so, you should splash your scrotum in cold water to make it taut—this will make the area easier to trim.

        After applying a little lubricant (a natural shaving balm or lotion will do the trick), you can trim your balls. When using a trimmer, you should always follow the instruction manual carefully and ensure the safety guard is secure to avoid any potential nicks or cuts (we recommend testing it on your leg or arm beforehand). You should pull the ball skin tight and work incredibly carefully with the grain until you’ve reached the desired smoothness

        • Yes, you can absolutely use a beard trimmer for body hair. Beard trimmers work exceptionally well for back, neck, and chest hair—but, there is a caveat. We don’t advise using beard trimmers for your penis or balls: your gential area is very delicate and to trim your pubic hair safely, we strongly recommend using specially-designed ball trimmers.

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These $30 Walmart Leggings Are a Dupe For High-End Activewear

As someone who works out frequently despite how I sometimes (read: often) dread it, I’ve tried countless activewear leggings throughout the years, including really affordable options and higher-end ones. I’m especially likely to try a brand or a specific style with rave reviews, so when I came across the CRZ Yoga Non-See-Through Athletic Compression Leggings ($30, originally $34), which boast wildly good reviews, I knew I had to see what all the fuss was about.

What I Like About These Leggings

These high-waisted leggings arrived in the mail faster than expected, which was certainly a treat for this leggings obsessee. They conveniently arrived in the morning, so I slipped into them immediately and wore them for the rest of the day — and for a test drive that afternoon for a run. As soon as I slipped them on, I had a feeling they were going to be a new favorite of mine. Made of 66 percent polyamide (aka nylon) and 34 percent lycra, they deliver high support without feeling too tight on the skin. And gosh, do they make your butt look good.

What’s more, these leggings feature a top-secret concealed waistband pocket that you probably wouldn’t even realize was there unless you studied every detail before you added them to your cart. (I didn’t.) I was able to fit my ID, credit card, and house key inside with room to spare, and the thick fabric made it so that I didn’t feel them pressing against me while I was getting my miles in.

What’s Worth Noting About These Leggings

While these leggings have mostly five-star reviews, there are a handful of lower ratings from shoppers who say they have a tendency to slide down while they work out. (Hence, causing you to have to keep pulling them up.) I will say that I experienced this slightly during my run, but I was able to overlook it because I love that nearly naked compressive feel — and it’s not like the slipping was absolutely constant.

Another thing worth noting about these leggings is you have options when it comes to color. I almost exclusively wear black activewear. (I’m slowly but surely working on expanding my activewear collection with some more hues.) That said, these leggings come in five other colors: cognac brown, black-and-gray tie-dye; a grayish-blue; plum; and baby blue.

Would I Recommend These Leggings?

Without a doubt! If you’re looking for a dupe to high-end options, these are definitely a smart alternative. For context, you can buy at least three for the price of one luxe pair, and I’m willing to bet your friends will think they’re the expensive version — they look and feel that good.

The only reason I’m giving them four stars and not a perfect five is that I did have to pull them up a few times during my run, and while that isn’t a deal-breaker to me, I know it may be to some.

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Millie Bobby Brown and Noah Schnapp Say They’ll Marry at 40 If They’re Still Single

To promote season 4 of Stranger Things, Millie Bobby Brown and Noah Schnapp interviewed each other for MTV News. The co-stars are also very good friends in real life, and in an adorable clip, Brown said that they have a “marriage pact.”

The now-teenagers have sworn that they would get married to each other if they’re both still single at 40-years-old. They’ve got a few decades to figure things out, but Brown and Schnapp already have a few conditions for their potential union. In the adorable clip, they talk excitedly about what it would be like to get to live your life with your best friend “completely platonically.”

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“We said if we’re not married by 40, we’ll get married together,” Brown began, adding it’s because the pair of friends would “be good roomies.”

“We would,” Schnapp agreed.

“No kids, though, cause I could not deal with a child of yours,” Brown joked.

Her friend agreed, saying, “That’s my deal-breaker. No kids.”

Schnapp and Brown eventually said they’d be happy to share a few dogs together and sleep in “separate bedrooms for sure.”

The potential couple met while filming the very first season of Stranger Things all the way back in 2015. They play friends on the show and formed a close bond off camera. But 18-year-old Brown is currently dating someone, Jon Bon Jovi’s son Jake Bongiovi, and it seems like the relationship is going great. They first sparked rumors that they were dating in June of 2021, and have since confirmed their relationship on Instagram.

Bongiovi also walked down the red carpet with Brown for the season 4 premiere, and they stopped to pose for pictures and make things “red carpet official.”

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Bongiovi later shared some of those pictures on Instagram to celebrate his girlfriend, writing in the caption, “Congratulations babe u deserve the world love you.”

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Adidas Ozworld Enters the Metaverse + More Fashion News

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See where your kicks can take you.

Adidas stomps through the metaverse

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The beloved Adidas Ozworld collection is storming into SS22. The preexisting Ozelia and Ozweego styles have been updated stylistically, and two new models dubbed Oznova and Ozweego Meta are here to show you that futuristic sneakers are all the rage. But the footwear conglomerate has taken it a step further, allowing consumers to express their unique style and identity through the metaverse via large digital screens at select retail locations. It’s an out of this world experience.

Louis Vuitton releases the final NBA capsule

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In 2020 when Louis Vuitton launched its collaboration with the NBA, it was at the helm of the late menswear designer Virgil Abloh. Now, on June 2, the French label has revealed its third and final installment of this partnership, with a capsule collection that features a backpack, watch case, hygiene bag and more, all in electric blue leather embossed with the iconic LV monogram. Rounded off with an updated travel trunk for the NBA’s new Larry O’Brien Trophy, the collection is entirely emblematic of Abloh’s affinity for opening up the fashion industry to the rest of the world.

Christian Louboutin heads to Greece

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This summer, Christian Louboutin is celebrating his love of travel with a tribute to the land and sea of Greece. Enter the Greekaba collection, headlined by two cabas bags featuring cheeky illustrations by Konstantin Kakanias, and accompanied by a selection of footwear and accessories for both men and women. The playful yet evocative styles are available online and at select stores globally, and a percentage of proceeds from the two couture bags will be donated to the Greek non-profit Together for Children.

Stay cool this summer with Hayley Elsaesser and Smirnoff

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Canadian designer Hayley Elsaesser is helping to kick off summer with the launch of Smirnoff’s new Berry Blast Vodka & Soda. In promoting the party-ready drink, Smirnoff is dropping a limited-edition run of Y2K-inspired unisex apparel, designed by the one and only Elsaesser. High fashion meets high function as the pockets in the cargo pants are coolant lined and fit the exact size of the drink can, while the bucket hat doubles as an ice bucket. Simple, yet effective.

Burberry puts roots down at the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee

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As the official partner of the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee Pageant this year, British fashion brand Burberry has created an exclusive scarf to commemorate and honour the occasion. The silk square is hand-illustrated with motifs inspired by ancient British woodlands, featuring birds that represent the four British nations. And in the creation of this scarf, Burberry made a donation to the Woodland Trust to further enrich the UK with trees. It is available for purchase and will adorn Burberry store flags and windows in London town for the span of the Jubilee celebrations.

Remake is encouraging consumers to stop shopping

Put simply, we all own too much stuff. And with our society’s constant urge to shop, loads of garments end up unworn and in landfills. So for the third summer in a row, non-profit collective Remake — which is on a mission to disrupt the clothing industry — is challenging consumers to pause purchasing new clothes for 90 days. From now until September 1, take the #NoNewClothes pledge and help to save over 9,700 litres of water, 207 kg of CO2e, 9.1 kg of waste, plus a whole lot of your own money.

Canadian lingerie brand Elita inclusively expands its range

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Elita wants every woman to feel like an Elita woman — which is why they’ve expanded their product offering in two ways. First, the selection of nudes has gone from just two very light beiges to now including a mahogany, espresso and soft rose tone, giving more women access to a perfect match in undergarments. Plus, sizing for their collections now reaches 3XL in bottoms and size 46 in bras.

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Get the Best of Power Yoga and HIIT With This 30-Minute Fusion Workout

Join certified yoga instructor Christa Janine for a 30-minute HIIT Flow routine that combines power yoga and HIIT circuit training. In this routine, you’ll warm up with yoga moves like Child’s Pose, Cat-Cow, Downward Dog, Mountain Pose, and more, so you can activate your core, wake up your body, and release any tightness before increasing the intensity of the workout. The HIIT portion includes moves like hammer-curl hinge triceps kickbacks, plié squats, and more. Grab your mat and prepare to pull out two light and two medium dumbbells for an added challenge!

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Kim Kardashian Never Sought Tickets to Queen’s Platinum Jubilee Party Despite Report

Kim Kardashian and Pete Davidson were photographed together in London on Monday, just days before the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee events began Thursday. Daily Mail claimed that Kardashian had wanted to go to the Platinum Party with the royals but was denied entry. Her rep had something to say about that—as blunt a denial as possible—and now the Daily Mail has taken its story down.

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The Daily Mail’s story with its headline and teaser before it was taken off the site

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Kardashian’s rep told Page Six that Kardsahian “didn’t even ask to go” to the event and returned to Los Angeles Wednesday, ahead of Jubilee events, for a pre-planned cover shoot.

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Pete Davidson and Kim Kardashian in London on May 31, 2022

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A source told Page Six that Kardashian was in London to support Davidson, who was working on a “secret project” there. A rep for Davidson additionally commented to Page Six, saying there is “no truth” to the Platinum Jubilee report.

Kardashian and Davidson’s relationship continues to be very serious though. A source told Us Weekly earlier this week that the two were contemplating moving in together.

“Their relationship continues to grow. They’re very secure with their relationship and talk future plans and moving in together,” the source said. “They’re looking forward to vacationing together this summer and having romantic alone time. He just wants to make her happy and is making up for not being able to go with her to Kourtney’s wedding.”

Kardashian spoke glowingly about Davidson on this week’s episode of The Kardashians, where she detailed how they first started dating. “Pete has got to be literally the best human being I’ve ever met,” she said in a confessional. “The best heart. People always say, ‘He’s so funny,’ and it has to do with how funny he is. That’s, like, fourth on my list on why I like him. [He] always wants the best for people, can handle anything, always does it with grace. He’s really, really thoughtful and humble and genuine. I would say the perfect word to describe Pete is genuine.”

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Wildcraft Skincare Celebrates National Indigenous History Month + Other Beauty News

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Including Cheekbone Beauty’s contaminated lip gloss, Schwarzkopf Professional’s upgraded haircare line and Starface’s first-ever sunscreen.

Wildcraft Skincare partners with 1% For The Planet

Indigenous-owned eco-luxury skincare label Wildcraft Skincare is celebrating National Indigenous History Month by committing to donate one per cent of its annual sales to the Canadian charity 1% For The Planet. When speaking about Indigenous representation in the clean beauty space, Laura Whitaker, the Toronto-based founder of the brand, says: “Clean and green beauty is not an inclusive space, generally. While the beauty industry is finally making room for Indigenous models, influencers, and entrepreneurs, there’s still a long way to go. A handful of Indigenous representation is not enough; it’s important for people who are outside of what is typically represented to know that there’s space for them too.”

The sustainable brand’s line features the Silk Sea Sponge, which is rich in enzymes and perfect for sensitive skin, the Wash Cream Cleanser made with Mediterranean purple clay, and the aluminium-free Lavender & Sage Deodorant ​​made with magnesium, kaolin clay and antibacterial essential oils to balance pH, reduce odour causing bacteria, and absorb moisture.

Cheekbone Beauty launches unsellable lip glosses featuring contaminated water

Three lipglosses with the titles Luscious Lead, E.Coli Kiss and Mercury Shimmer.
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In recognition of Indigenous History Month, Indigenous-owned Cheekbone Beauty has launched its #GlossedOver campaign, an initiative aimed at bringing pressing light to the fact that many First Nations communities in Canada still do not have access to clean drinking water. The campaign features three *unsellable* lipglosses infused with actual contaminated water — think: lead, E, coli and mercury — from local Indigenous communities. With names like “Luscious Lead,” “E.Coli Kiss,” and “Mercury Shimmer,” the lipglosses aim to raise the question, “Would you put it to your lips? Some people don’t have a choice. It’s time to stop glossing over this issue,” states the brand in a press release. The company goes on to say: “While Cheekbone Beauty recognizes it’s unacceptable to sell contaminated products to the public, it demands to know why it’s acceptable for many Indigenous communities and their access to drinking water.” In collaboration with the bold campaign, beauty mega retailer Sephora will donate all proceeds from the sale of Cheekbone Beauty products throughout the month of June to Water First, a charitable organization supporting Indigenous communities to address the water crisis.

Schwarzkopf Professional launches its newest line Session Label

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With summer just around the corner, Schwarzkopf Professional is ready to help revamp your hair care routine. Its newest line Session Label, which launched June 1, has been curated for the daily use of salon stylists. Adapted from OSiS+, the upgraded line is sustainably made with carbon-free plastic resin, to ensure recyclability, and most of the products contain vegan formulas. In addition relaunching its most loved formulas from OSiS+, Session Label is introducing five brand-new innovations, including The Thickener Blow Dry Spray to leave your hair feeling thicker, The Definer Curl Cream to define curls without frizziness, and The Serum Finishing Oil to add a silky shine to the hair’s surface without overburdening it.

Starface launches sunscreen

This week, Starface unveiled its new oil-free high-protection Clear as Day Broad Spectrum Sunscreen SPF 46. The cult-favourite acne care brand is committed to building a line up of products that are highly effective and promote self-acceptance, and this moisturizing SPF is no different. The sunscreen blend is fragrance-free and formulated to leave your skin with a silky smooth, clear finish with zero white cast. Suitable for acne-prone skin, this is the perfect product to layer on before heading out into the summer sun!

Etiket introduces Goldfield & Banks fragrance

Etiket, a leading Canadian luxury facial spa and beauty boutique based in Montreal, is the ultimate destination for discovering niche fragrances. This week the boutique introduced Purple Suede Eau de Parfum by Australian fragrance house Goldfield & Banks to its exclusive fragrance line-up. Featuring notes of Australian lavender, frankincense, hyssop flowers, rose, amber and wood, this gorgeous new spritz is sensual and leathery.

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As a Survivor of Gun Violence, I Know Change Is Possible

I never thought of myself as a survivor. In fact, I was told over and over again that I wasn’t one. “You weren’t there!” they said. “Who are you to say that you’re a gun violence survivor?’’ In one way, they’re right—I wasn’t there that afternoon. But that day will live loudly within me forever.

On Sept. 11, 1995, my sister-in-law, Laura, and my three nieces, Sarah, Rachel, and April, were shot and killed by Laura’s husband, the girls’ father. April was just five months old when she was murdered. Sarah, the oldest, had just gotten home from her first day of kindergarten. It was supposed to be a day of celebration, but feeling like he had missed out, my brother-in-law broke into my mother-in-law’s home and shot and killed Laura and their three daughters. My mother-in-law was wounded trying to protect one of her grandchildren.

I may not have been present when the shooting took place, but I was there that night cleaning the blood out of my mother-in-law’s hair. I acted as her ongoing caretaker as she battled the trauma for the rest of her life. Years later, I was there when my daughter was trying to find the strength to leave her own abusive relationship. And I’m still here—just like the millions of other survivors of domestic violence and gun violence.

When I received word of the shootings, I feared that I was next. I huddled with my three-month-old and two-year-old, waiting to hear what I should do, not knowing that my brother-in-law had been apprehended. If I, one step removed from the violence, felt this terror, what must my nieces’ and Laura’s last moments have been like?

I have come to learn that our story is America’s story.

For a long time, I didn’t tell our story because I thought it was just that—our story. I know what it’s like to be ridiculed or not believed, and even people within Laura’s evangelical community, including pastors, dismissed her concerns about the dangerous dynamic she was in. I have come to learn, however, that our story is America’s story, and I must tell it so that people do not turn away from the versions of it that exist in their own communities.

Across the nation, easy access to firearms, coupled with societal systems that aren’t built to protect women, allow this public health crisis to flourish. Access to a gun makes it five times more likely an abuser will kill his female victim. On average, 70 women are shot and killed by an intimate partner every month. Nearly one million women alive today have been shot or shot at by an intimate partner, while millions more have been threatened with a gun. Abusers use power to inflict emotional trauma and exert coercive control over their victims, and guns only exacerbate that power, even when abusers do not ultimately pull the trigger.

Like so many families in Uvalde, Buffalo, and hundreds of cities across the country will soon find out, the trauma of gun violence doesn’t go away after the shooting stops and the media cameras leave—if there are any cameras at all. As survivors, our families and communities hold the trauma from gun violence forever.

But this public health crisis isn’t inevitable. I have seen change happen. In March, President Joe Biden signed a government spending bill that included a bipartisan reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act. This bill took critical steps to address the needs of survivors and built on the work the president started when he authored the first Violence Against Women Act in the 1990s. The Senate voted for the measure almost unanimously—showing me that bipartisan support for common-sense gun reform is achievable.

We must keep fighting to make sure our lawmakers are making our safety a top priority. That’s why this weekend, thousands of Moms Demand Action and Students Demand Action volunteers will be joining with survivors to honor those stolen by gun violence for the annual National Gun Violence Awareness Day and Wear Orange Weekend.

Wear Orange is dedicated to honoring the lives of people in the United States affected by gun violence and elevating the voices of those demanding change. The weekend originated in 2015 to honor Hadiya Pendleton, who was 15 years old when she was shot and killed in Chicago. Today, Wear Orange honors Hadiya and the more than 110 people shot and killed every day in the United States, as well as the hundreds more who are wounded.

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National Gun Violence Awareness weekend in June 2019.

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Gun violence is an epidemic in our country that affects everyone in proximity to it: neighbors, classmates, teachers, friends, and family. No one is left untouched. No community is immune. As lawmakers, it’s time for you to commit to tending to all aspects of this crisis and prioritizing gun safety so that no auntie, sibling, parent, grandparent, or community member ever needs to know this kind of indescribable grief and loss.

It has long been the time for action. But you simply can’t wait anymore. Passing common-sense policies, like background checks and red flag laws, would keep guns out of the hands of those who shouldn’t have them. We can ​reduce gun violence in America, but we need you, our lawmakers, to ​stand with us.

​Every day, I miss my nieces, but every day I get up ready to fight for them. ​​In their honor, and in honor of a nation made of gun violence survivors, I implore you to stand with us.

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The Society Swan Is This Season’s Most Surprising Muse

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PHOTOGRAPHED BY CAMILA FALQUEZ

They were walking, breathing Slim Aarons photos come to life—literally. The photographer who defined midcentury style by taking photos of “attractive people doing attractive things in attractive places” frequently captured them at home and at play, and often both. Some 60 years later, much like “walkers” and long lunches at La Côte Basque, these stylish women—whom Truman Capote dubbed his “swans”—have largely faded from view.

But this season, they took wing again. Look no further than the 2022 pre-fall shows at New York Fashion Week, where the swans’ silhouettes found their way into collections as varied as Oscar de la Renta, Carolina Herrera, Khaite, and Christopher John Rogers—complete with some thoroughly modern updates. At Oscar, perfectly cut tweed suits came with statement buttons and bare midriffs. Carolina Herrera’s models stood on pedestals, but their swanlike ensembles included down-to-earth touches like cutouts; Rogers updated classic silhouettes with bold stripes and one-of-a-kind hats. These are clothes for a woman who prizes individuality, maybe even eccentricity, in a sea of algorithm-driven sameness.

“The swans didn’t just have money and style, but an extraordinary presentation that Truman Capote considered an art form,” says Laurence Leamer, author of last year’s group biography Capote’s Women, now being adapted for the next season of FX’s Feud. “In the postwar world, they legitimized elegant dress as a worthy concern, and that stays with us today.”

Figures like Babe Paley, C. Z. Guest, Slim Keith, and Gloria Guinness combined money with idiosyncratic taste in a way that resonates in our new normal of Zoom calls and athleisure. With their families and fortunes, they ruled New York society in its great last gasp during the ’50s and ’60s—defining the lady who lunches, as well as the lady who is tastefully photographed in her Billy Baldwin-designed living room, effortlessly setting trends.

“Women across all geographies and ages are wanting fabulous, glamorous, heart-skip-a-beat moments from fashion.”

—Wes Gordon, creative director of Carolina Herrera

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A look from Carolina Herrera pre-fall 2022.

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The concept remains, though in a drastically altered form. “A modern swan is not someone who is only influential within their social circle, but someone who uses their reach to change the world around them,” says Lisa Aiken, fashion and lifestyle director of Neiman Marcus. “Someone like Aurora James comes to mind.” James, the founder of fashion label Brother Vellies and the nonprofit The Fifteen Percent Pledge, which promotes Black-owned brands, is a perfect example of this revised archetype. No longer are swans automatically assumed to be uniformly white, wealthy women; nor do we think of those who want to emulate them as such.

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A look from Christopher John Rogers pre-fall 2022.

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Today’s designers recognize the power of individuality italicized, no matter the wearer’s age or background. “It’s possible to tap into an essence of elegance and glamour that isn’t just owned by one decade,” says Wes Gordon, creative director of Carolina Herrera. “And I think now is really a moment where we’re seeing that be embraced. Women across all geographies and ages are wanting fabulous, glamorous, heart-skip-a-beat moments from fashion.” And we’re definitely ready to revive what Gordon calls “the exuberance” of the way the swans lived. Many of the pre-fall collections felt like a color-saturated call to arms for a more expansive life after a period of circumscribed living.

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Oscar de la Renta pre-fall 2022.

Courtesy of the designer.

“For over a decade now, we have seen the mass casualization of fashion, so it makes sense that in this moment, we are craving an alternative—especially as we emerge from the pandemic,” Aiken says. Now designers are homing in on what she describes as the swans’ “effortlessly polished style and sophistication.” In an age of influencers, followers, and very little mystery, the swans possess a real appeal. “We saw only what they wanted us to see,” Aiken says.

We’re all ready for a reason to embrace individuality, and to emulate fictional model Mag Wildwood in Capote’s classic Breakfast at Tiffany’s (whose indelible creation Holly Golightly more than slightly resembled some of his swans). Mag’s beauty, he wrote, came about as the result of “exaggerating defects: she’d made them ornamental by admitting them boldly.” Like Mag, like the swans, we could all use a push to live life—and dress for it—with an exclamation point.

This article appears in the June/July 2022 issue of ELLE.

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What Is Energy Healing, Anyway? Experts Explain

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If you’re clued in to the ever-changing world of wellness, you might have noticed energy healing steadily gaining popularity. Maybe you’ve seen the clip of Julianne Hough receiving a treatment, listened to your sister-in-law rave about Reiki, or heard about your coworker’s extensive collection of crystals. No matter what sparked your interest, there’s a chance you’re still wondering what energy healing is.

Energy healing (also called energy work) is a broad wellness genre filled with many different modalities and opinions. As such, it can be a confusing subject to dissect. To help make sense of it, we talked to some energy healers and did some research to answer at least a few of your burning questions. Here, learn what energy healing is, the different types of energy-healing tools and treatments, and why you might want to consider trying it for yourself.

What Is Energy Healing?

Energy healing has its roots in Ayurvedic and traditional Chinese medicine. It comes in many forms, including Reiki, acupuncture, and crystal healing; you can expect different experiences from different teachers, Millana Snow, an energy healer and founder of Wellness Official, says. Essentially, it’s the act of channeling and changing the energy that runs through your body as a way of healing.

Energy healing “utilizes subtle energies — like wavelengths of color or sound frequencies — to restore a sense of relaxation and well-being,” Alexis Alvarez, an intuitive energy worker at Modrn Sanctuary who practices different forms of energy healing, including crystal healing and Reiki, says. “The theory is that energy work can benefit mental, emotional, and physical concerns or ailments, because these issues always start as an energetic imbalance first.” The goal is to regulate the energy center and treat the imbalance, returning the body to a “harmonious state,” or homeostasis.

The Different Energy-Healing Tools and Treatments

Energy healing doesn’t refer to a single process; it encompasses many different healing modalities that “diagnose or heal by manipulating the energy that pulses through every cell in our bodies,” Jill Blakeway, DACM, LAc, doctor of acupuncture and Chinese medicine and author of “Energy Medicine: The Science and Mystery of Healing,” says.

One of the most talked-about methods — and the one backed by the most scientific research — is acupuncture, which is used to treat a plethora of issues, including menstrual problems, fertility, pain, allergies, and stress. Interestingly enough, Blakeway says it’s the only energy healing technique that is licensed in the United States.

Research shows that acupuncture “increases circulation, thermal imaging shows it reduces inflammation, and blood tests confirm that it prompts the body to produce its own painkillers, called endorphins,” Blakeway says. “It’s also more mechanical than other forms of energy medicine.”

Snow has developed her own style of practice, which she calls integrative energy healing — and which she likens to “being the opposite of acupuncture.” Her method works from the inside (think: your emotional, mental, and spiritual states) to affect your physical body.

Another common energy healing technique is Reiki, which is sometimes used to reduce stress and pain. Johns Hopkins Medicine describes it as a practice of energy healing where “hands are placed just off the body or lightly touching the body, as in ‘laying on of hands.'” Reiki practitioners will “use their hands to deliver energy to your body, improving the flow and balance of your energy to support healing,” according to the Cleveland Clinic.

Other forms of energy healing include sound healing, chromotherapy (aka color therapy), and crystal healing.

“Crystals have applications in science that are related to their ability to transform energy,” Blakeway explains. “The technical term for this is piezoelectric, which means they can transform energy from one form to another. Crystals vibrate at their own frequency, and the frequency emitted by specific types of crystal can be measured. This makes them an excellent conduit for energy, which is why they are used in energy healing.”

Different crystals are said to have different energy components. For example, amber reportedly promotes emotional and physical healing, while moonstone has calming qualities.

Alvarez says that utilizing crystals is one of the many ways you can practice energy healing in your daily life without having to book time with a practitioner. “Some people listen to Aum chanting and specific sound frequencies for stress relief,” she adds. “Using a colored light bulb can quickly adjust your mood. Essential oils are also a great and practical energy tool we can use to feel better. The chemicals in the scents we smell can have immediate effects on our psyche.”

Energy healing can also incorporate other common wellness practices, such as meditation, breathwork, and mind-body movement.

In short, the field is overflowing with different treatments — but not all are backed by a significant amount of scientific research. So, if you want to give energy healing a shot, consider seeking guidance from a licensed professional or a medical professional.

What’s a Session With an Energy Healer Like?

What is energy healing like? With Snow, it starts with meditation and breathwork, where you’ll consciously change your breathing pattern to alter your mental and physical states. From there, “I start to work on your chakra system, the seven main chakras,” Snow says. This helps unblock your energy channels and return you to “your natural state of well-being,” she says.

The goal of this practice is to “move deeper into the unconscious mind, looking at how your mental stories and ideas are trapped in that energy, in that emotion, in that physical ailment,” Snow says.

With that said, since there are so many different types of energy healing, your experience will vary depending on the practitioner and the modality they’re using.

Can You Do Remote Energy Work?

If you’re thinking about trying energy healing but can’t make it to an IRL appointment, or if it’s tough to find a practitioner in your area, we have good news: you don’t have to do it in person. Snow has led online energy-healing sessions for two years through Wellness Official and says you can still get the benefits without leaving your home. She’s even led sessions through Instagram Live.

“You put your headphones in, you lie down, and I start to guide you into a meditation to help you go deeper into your subconscious,” Snow says. She then leads clients into breathwork before sending energy their way. “It’s working off the premise that space and time are illusions,” she explains. “Energy doesn’t need the containers of physical space. It goes wherever it needs to go.” Snow’s remote clients have said that it actually feels like she’s in the room with them — like they can feel the touch of her hands. “It might sound a little scary,” Snow laughs. “I promise you, it’s not scary. It’s all positive, loving energy.”

What Can You Get Out of Energy Healing?

In Snow’s experience, most people don’t try energy healing until they’re going through a challenging time, whether it’s with their job, their health, or their relationships. “They’ve kind of hit a wall,” she says.

However, energy healing can actually benefit anyone, no matter where they are in life. “What I hope for most people is that it doesn’t have to get really hard before they come to me,” Snow says. If energy healing — or even other aspects of it, such as breathwork or meditation — are part of your normal routine, you’ll be more in tune with your body and mind. If something’s going wrong in life, being in touch with yourself will help you pick up on it sooner and have the strength to make a change. “That’s what I ultimately wish for all of my clients,” Snow says. “That they get into that practice, and they can just have that strength and clarity on their own.”

—Additional reporting by Maggie Ryan

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Odessa Young Is Not An It Girl

On a mid-May morning in Brooklyn, Odessa Young is recognizable, though muffled under a shield of ubiquity. In her home neighborhood of Williamsburg, she arrives at the snug café Marlow & Sons with her eyes hidden behind a pair of tortoiseshell-rimmed tinted glasses. She’s makeup-free, dressed in the local uniform of black loafers and socks, a clip holding up half her blonde hair while the rest tangles at the nape of her neck. Loping at her side is Slim Jim, a mutt she rescued after discovering him abandoned in a parking lot in Atlanta about a year ago. A teeny chestnut-colored poodle-miniature pinscher-shih tzu-cocker spaniel-American Eskimo dog mix, he repeatedly interrupts to fight for a nibble of her pastry. Young leans in, grinning: “Can you imagine all those dogs in this tryst?”

I’ve read before that Young doesn’t come off like a star, or even like most other actresses of her caliber. It’s unclear if this fuck-it attitude is curated or natural, though I suspect the latter once she tells me why she got into acting in the first place: “There are just some parts of me and my personality and the way that I was built that inherently lend itself to doing this job. Because if I wasn’t an actor, I’d probably be a grifter.”

Case in point: She’s a high-school dropout, an Australian expat who convinced her musician father and writer mother in Sydney that, following two roles in Aussie films Looking for Grace and The Daughter, she could go full-time. After enduring unemployment for about a year, she made the big move to LA; after that, she abandoned Hollywood for New York City. “I don’t like rules,” she says, by way of explanation for her career choices. “Unless they are the Ten Commandment-esque rules of, ‘Don’t kill people’ and ‘Do unto others…’ But in terms of the rules of how we’re meant to behave in public, how we’re meant to carry ourselves, what we’re meant to believe and how we’re meant to express that? I find all of those rules a little confounding. I think that acting gives me an opportunity to express that confoundedness.” She shrugs, takes a self-deprecating swing. “Didn’t finish high school, so I make up words.”

Now Young divides her time between the East Coast and West, simultaneously convinced of her talent and conflicted about it. “I think that everybody in the fucking world has the ability to be on a screen and move someone [who’s] watching,” she says. “And I know I have that ability. What is difficult is figuring out all the stuff around it.” I don’t have to nudge her toward these more existential topics; she falls into them willingly, if not gracefully, plugging her nose before the dive.

Her most recent role, as Martha Ratliff in HBO’s true-crime drama The Staircase, lends itself to a particularly soul-searching chat. Something of an ingénue wunderkind, especially after her lauded role as a housekeeper in the 2021 film Mothering Sunday, Young’s enjoyed a steady command over her own performances. The Staircase was a departure.

In the series, based on the French documentary of the same name, she plays one of the adopted daughters of Michael Peterson (Colin Firth), accused and convicted of murdering his wife, Kathleen (Toni Collette), after she’s discovered dead at the bottom of their household staircase. Throughout both the real-life case and the HBO adaptation, Martha insists on her father’s innocence, even after a nearly identical case is unearthed from years prior: Her own mother, who died when she was a child, was found dead at the bottom of a staircase before Michael and Kathleen adopted Martha and her sister, Margaret (played in the series by Sophie Turner). In both reality and fictionalized reality, Michael isn’t exactly known for his forthcomingness; he’s caught in several lies and omissions, but the majority of his family members—and those crafting the documentary about his case—remain convinced of his innocence. Of all his children, Martha identifies the most with her father’s secrecy: He’s eventually revealed to be a bisexual man who hid his frequent affairs with men from his wife and family. Martha is a closeted lesbian.

Young never made contact with the real-life Martha, in part because The Staircase creator Antonio Campos had met with the real-life Margaret, whom she said made it clear the Peterson family didn’t want to be “anything more than just conversationally involved.” (Some of the real people involved with the documentary have also expressed their displeasure over the HBO series.) But sequestering the real Martha from the show Martha was also a sign of respect. “I’m not her friend,” Young says. “She doesn’t have any reason to tell me secrets about her.”

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In hindsight, that distance might have made it trickier for Young to get into Martha’s head. So much of The Staircase is about projection and perception, how a different lens can provide a different—but equally convincing—account of reality. Was Michael Peterson unjustly vilified for his bisexuality? Was he a pathological liar and cold-blooded killer? Did an owl kill Kathleen? Did an alcohol-induced fall? What about a blow poke? Does Martha actually believe in her father’s innocence, or does she need to?

“The revelation is not that [Martha’s] gay,” Young says. “The revelation is that she has an understanding of her father’s secrecy and propensity to hide. She understands how someone can feel—even when they’re telling the truth—they feel like they’re lying, because if you’re lying about one core thing, it creates this haze around everything else.”

For someone like Young, who’s less obsessed with the “integrity” of a performance than the clarity of it, that haze felt like an actual menacing presence on set. “I see a bit of a lostness in my performance, that, for me, feels painful to watch. Because I know that I, as a performer, was lost,” she says. Young couldn’t discern how much of Martha was real, how much was a persona for the public, nor whether she should replicate mannerisms from the documentary or trust her own instincts. “That was always the pendulum for me as the performer, and I never felt like the pendulum settled.”

Never mind that no one, including her cast-mates, could settle on whether Michael actually killed Kathleen or not. Each tended to fall into the perspective of whatever character they were inhabiting. At this point, Young’s a little sick of even considering Michael’s guilt or innocence. “I thought for a long time that I was going to be the really smart one to figure it out, to see something that no one had seen or think of something that no one had thought of,” she admits. But like all those who’d come before her, chiseling into the warped psyche of Michael Peterson, “now I know that’s not going to happen, and so I’m like, it’s actually none of my business.”

“We’re becoming really lazy about discerning between narrative and reality.”

Yet she does, desperately, want her performance as Martha to have merit. Perhaps that’s why she’s frustratingly insecure about it: She needs people to watch this series and get something—anything!—out of Martha’s tears, her dye-dipped hair and early-aughts glasses, her kisses behind closed doors. All the discomfort during filming—and it was discomfort; “I don’t think I’ve ever been so uncomfortable for seven months, from the beginning to end, all the time…I had all sorts of existential crises every single day playing that character”—couldn’t be for show.

There’s an almost childlike earnestness that rears its head when Young, now 24, discusses her repertoire. She’ll rein herself in when buzzwords slip out—“Oh my God, this is so fucking corny”—but the terrible truth remains: She’s a card-carrying member of the Acting Matters fan club. Sue her! It’s in vogue for artists to exhibit a healthy cynicism, to admit Netflix isn’t researching cancer cures and Star Wars isn’t therapy. (Young would add, duh.) But for a would-be grifter, she’s no skeptic.

“I believe so greatly and devoutly in the power of this work and the power of cinema and drama and all that sort of stuff, even though I hate it with a passion and wish I could just fucking drop it and move to the woods,” she says. Tearing a hunk off her pastry, she adds, as a way of accepting her fate, “I unfortunately do believe in it more than anything.”

The problem is that Hollywood’s a package deal: If you want the big, meaningful stories, you’d best be prepared to craft a persona to deal with “how intent this industry is on distracting you from actually doing the work,” Young says. When I ask her for clarification, she drops back into jokes at her own expense: “I remember I did a bunch of mushrooms once, and thought I’d figured this out and then promptly forgot it.”

But, the gist of her argument—not that it’s anything new—is this: For how often it waxes poetic about artistic purity, Hollywood’s still a business, and its job is to sell commodities. Sometimes those commodities are films; often, they’re actors themselves. That means actors are competing products, which explains why Young finds herself flustered when she encounters a film set in the city and her name’s not on the trailer. “I get fucking grumpy, because I’m like, Why didn’t they hire me? Why didn’t I know about this?” That competition is intensified for female actresses, who not only commodify their personas but also their bodies. Their performances become an image and their image a skincare line. There are old performances of Young’s that she’ll watch every so often, ones where she can just tell she couldn’t forget the presence of her own face. It doesn’t help that directors have told her not to raise her eyebrows in crying scenes before, supposedly because she has too many forehead wrinkles. Ironically, Young’s little imperfections, the aforementioned forehead wrinkles, her slightly crooked teeth, are part of what make her performances feel so—God, that word again—real. Meaningful. Like they matter.

“We’re preoccupied with showing controlled ugliness [at the detriment] of showing realities,” Young says. “We completely ignore true ugliness, for fear that it will reveal or create a misunderstanding between us and the audience…We’re becoming really lazy about discerning between narrative and reality. And it’s a little worrisome.”

I point out that, well, isn’t that exactly the point of some of these films and TV shows? One like The Staircase, for instance? That there is a place where narrative and reality mesh, and can anyone really know where the line is drawn?

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Odessa Young (center) as Martha Ratliff.

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She agrees, but insists that line still matters. She uses a friend of hers as an example: a so-called “multi-disciplinarian” with a strong social media following, “where her persona is a fictionalized version of herself,” Young says. “Despite the fact that she says, all the time, ‘It’s partly fabrication,’ people refuse to see that and think that they are welcomed into her life and her experiences by the very fact that they’re witnessing what they think is her real-life experience. It becomes dangerous when we cannot discern between reality and narrative, because it means that we will live to the standards of those narratives, not to the standards of those realities.”

“That’s how those rules you dislike come about,” I say.

“Exactly!” Young says. “But truly.”

So then I ask about her persona, if she has one, which of course she does, because don’t we all? I tell her a colleague of mine once described her as a cinematic “It Girl,” and Young reacts like I’ve just let a fart loose in a place both sacred and hysterical, like a wedding or a funeral. “An It Girl?” she repeats, equal parts disgusted and giddy. “No! Who said that? Oh my God. What are they reading? That’s shocking. Because in order to be an It Girl, you need to have lots of friends and be in lots of places. I don’t leave my house and I have four friends.”

Well, the narrative has to come from somewhere, right? So what evidence has been manipulated this time to give Young the sheen of tastemaker? “I’m going to be thinking about that the whole week,” she says, then considers. “No, I think really what has happened is that, since I stopped thinking that my worth in the industry was based on how many people wanted to work with me without knowing why, I have actually become way more confident.”

As she thinks more, she ends on a paradox: “I don’t want my persona to be a persona. I’d like it to be somewhat real, while also knowing that, as an actor, it’s impossible for me to know who I am.”

Photographed by Christopher Schoonover, styled by Chloe Hartstein for The Wall Group, hair by Takuya Yamaguchi for The Wall Group, makeup by Tyron Machhausen for The Wall Group.

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