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Dantiel W. Moniz on Feminist Awakenings and Experimenting with the First-Person Plural

Dantiel W. Moniz is a Florida native. That may not always be a celebrated American locus, but Moniz’s writing is joining a burgeoning regional literary canon including Lauren Groff, who blurbed the book, and Kristen Arnett. Moniz’s fiction has appeared in various literary journals, and now her first complete collection, Milk Blood Heat, covers a wider breadth with 11 short stories lauded by the likes of Raven Leilani and Danielle Evans. Moniz addresses charged subjects of racial identity, family obligation, romantic entanglement, and wholehearted friendship, always lingering on fragile moments that are quotidian in scale but existential in meaning. These junctures zoom in on the multiplicities, anxieties, and incongruities of the female experience.

ELLE.com emailed with the author about the chaotic kinship between mothers and daughters, the movie adaptations she’s obsessing over, and her skill in implementing the first person plural.

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Why short stories as your form of choice?

More often than not, it’s like I’m uncovering a story than creating it outright. I think it’s amazing that in such a brief space, I can fall so deeply into the lives of characters that they become realized. And there’s all this room for me to imagine how their lives might continue off the page. I hope this collection offers something to readers who would not ordinarily describe themselves as “lovers of the short form.”

Most of these stories have been published individually in literary journals. Were they written gradually came together later, or did you always conceive of them as a growing collection?

A version of the oldest story in the book was written in 2012 in one of my undergraduate workshops, and the rest sometime between 2015 and 2019. I had written a handful of these stories before I realized they might be a collection. At first, I thought, oh no, you keep writing the same thing over and over… without realizing that’s exactly what a story collection does. It takes whatever a writer’s obsessing over and turns it on its face so it can be viewed from many angles.

What cultural resources influenced you as a writer?

I’ve wanted to write a book since very young. I read anything I could get my hands on growing up, and sometimes those might have been age-inappropriate texts, but all of it shaped me. More specifically, I wouldn’t be the writer I am today without Janet Fitch’s White Oleander or Alice Walker’s The Color Purple. And I loved Jeffery Eugenides’s The Virgin Suicides, but it was the film adaptation that really got me. And Baz Luhrmann’s Romeo + Juliet, omg! I’m hugely influenced by films, and get just as much writing technique from watching as I do reading.

Many of the couples and the friendships throughout the collection are interracial. Can you talk about exploring this dynamic?

I grew up in majority-white neighborhoods and school systems, so that informed a lot of my relationships, and thus the way I viewed myself and my place in the world. While these were people who undoubtedly cared for me, there were a lot of moments where—intentionally or not—I was othered by them. And that was sometimes painful and confusing: getting these mixed messages from inside and outside the house, so to speak. I wanted to explore the complexity of those types of relationships, conditioned by our world at large. Black work doesn’t need to engage with whiteness, but it’s something I’m interested in doing right now.

Your characters also address the not-so-subtleties of everyday racism. In “Necessary Bodies,” the main character feels shifty at a restaurant because “No matter where they went or how they acted, their behavior or appearance, their being, was always under scrutiny.” In “An Almanac of Bones,” the young character bristles at her white friend’s mother’s judgement, saying “I pretended not to be offended by her questions, as if the implications of either topic were lost on me.” Can you talk about weaving the sociopolitical reality of racism into storytelling?

The thing is, I do think microaggressions are subtle for people who don’t regularly experience them. It can be as simple as a look or a certain tone of voice, or noticing, as in “Necessary Bodies,” that someone has neglected to greet you in a store or restaurant, though you watched them welcome the people around you. Someone might say, “Are you sure that’s what’s happening?” and it’s like the biggest side-eye moment because, yes, I’ve lived in this body my whole life; I can recognize it easily. It’s one small, persistent way of denying someone else’s experiences.

And while I definitely wanted to acknowledge the realities of the systems we live in while exploring the worlds of these characters, I also wanted it to be clear that race and race issues aren’t always at the forefront of these characters’ minds. Sometimes they’re just worried about the same stuff everyone is: How do I maintain this relationship I have, and what will death be like when it comes for me? Human stuff doesn’t stop happening for anyone, even if there are sometimes more obstacles to complicate that.

There’s a powerful feminist awakening in “Tongues,” in which an adolescent becomes increasingly angry about the passive “good young girl” trope expected of her. Did you intend this as something of a teaching moment?

While these stories explore morality and the conditional traits of goodness or badness, more than anything, I hope they leave space for a reader to examine themselves. For me, that’s what the best fiction does: Pulls me back into my own body, my own life, and re-centers me. Or maybe even knocks me off balance; sometimes that’s desirable or necessary, too. We’re all conditioned for certain kinds of behavior, and it’s taken me a long time to untangle what I actually want from my life and separate that from my conditioning. It’s something I’m still working on. I hope readers will imagine other ways of being that are more receptive: flawed and complicated, but extraordinary for that reason.

“Human stuff doesn’t stop happening for anyone, even if there are sometimes more obstacles to complicate that.”

Motherhood is a recurrent theme throughout the collection, from various angles. In terms of becoming a mother, Rayna in “Feast” is unable to recover psychologically after a miscarriage, whereas in “Necessary Bodies,” Billie is ambivalent about her unexpected pregnancy—partially because of her own mother’s revisionist history of parenthood. There’s also the flip side, in which the daughter’s regard for the mother shifts. In “Heart of Our Enemies,” Margot suddenly sees Frankie as “not just a mother, but a whole person…It dawns on [her] that, old as she is, it’s her mother’s first time on this earth, too.” By contrast, in “An Almanac of Bones,” Helen is mostly absent for Sylvie. Do you see these stories as, cumulatively, being an expansive dialogue about mothers and daughters?

Absolutely. The image of Ouroboros eating his tail; that idea of birth and rebirth. Even the elemental and connective natures of milk, blood, and heat, which Sylvie notes in one scene as “a link stretching back, mother to daughter to mother, in an unbroken chain from the center of time.” Even when motherhood isn’t being explored directly, I think of it as omnipresent. If you aren’t a mother, you have one, and what does it mean, specifically, to be a daughter? I see Milk Blood Heat as a linked collection, each story building off the one before, to its end.

“Exotics” is an interesting outlier, in a way, mostly because of its use of “we.” The collective voice makes sense: solidarity between hospitality workers relative to those they serve on the other end of the socio-economic divide. How do you approach the narrative differently when the group is a single mouthpiece?

Thanks for asking about this one. I understand why some readers might feel the story is misplaced in the collection, but I don’t think of “Exotics” as an outlier. Rather, it’s a more literal depiction of the aspects of consumption and complicity the rest of the collection explores, which paradoxically makes it feel the most surreal. When I envisioned this story, it was always going to be in the first-person plural, for reasons you’ve stated, and because I really wanted to ramp up the uncomfortable tension between the “we” in the story—these servers just doing their jobs—and the “we” that is us, the readers—who are complicit in these same systems by virtue of merely living in them. I approach writing the collective voice much the same as any other point of view, except maybe I’m more conscious of what’s at play—effectively rendering groupthink while also being aware of the individuals that make up the group. There’s a more manageable distribution of guilt to just shrug and say, “Well, this is the way it is.”

Florida is the unifying setting throughout. Can you talk about your relationship to this state? What makes it so indelible for you?

I have complicated feelings about this state, but it’s home. It’s helped shape everything that I am. Florida gets a lot of flak, but I think most of it boils down to elitism, the way it does with southern states in general. It’s diverse in its people and geography, and it can be bizarre like any place can, but it’s absolutely unique. I wanted to honor it in my work, and not write about it in a way that would contribute to stereotypes. I hope to live other places for a while, but I know I’ll miss it when I go.

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I Started Allowing Myself to Feel Sad, and It Has Helped My Anxiety Tremendously

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For most of my life, feeling sad is something I tried to hide. I was frequently told that “girls are too emotional” and to “toughen up,” so I equated crying as a weakness, a flaw, something to be ashamed of. I thought being sad was something I could just ignore, and it would go away. An editor with tough feedback? It’s OK, I’ll just try twice as hard next time. Mom diagnosed with cancer? No big deal, she’ll get through it, and I’ll be her biggest cheerleader. But over the years, I noticed that those feelings never actually went away — instead, my emotions would come out in other unexpected and surprising ways, like anger, anxiety, and even panic attacks. It almost makes crying seem easy!

A few weeks ago, my mom texted me that she was feeling sad, and it was like a wake-up call for me. We have a perpetually happy, always-have-a-motivational-quote-on-standby type of family dynamic — which doesn’t leave much room for admitting you were wrong, talking about depression, or expressing how sad you are. But my mom, a woman who comforted her children as she was shaving her head during chemo, admitted to being upset. That inspired me to try it, too. What if I acknowledged when I felt sad and actually allowed myself space for those feelings instead of just trying to push through like I always do? The results were amazing; it actually helped my anxiety.

I’ve committed to letting myself be sad over the last month. I only have a few simple rules: I will name what it is that’s making me sad out loud or in a journal, I will allow myself to be sad for as long as it takes, and I will not judge myself for anything I feel sad over. I applied these rules to everything I was sad about during that time period, which ranged from being out of ice cream to going through a chemical pregnancy. I told myself it’s OK to feel sad, and I’m not less of a person because this upsets me. Sometimes I’ll cry, sometimes I’ll write, a few times I’ve texted my mom to tell her about it. But I’ve always given myself time to process my emotions.

This subtle shift has dramatically improved my mental health. I usually push things to the side, not thinking about problems or emotions until they eventually boil over. I practically have a degree in the art of letting stress build up to unmanageable levels, which almost always results in overreacting or seemingly random panic attacks later on. Yelling at my kids for playing in the pantry? Blowing up at my husband for buying the wrong kind of almond milk? Those are things I’m not proud of and might have avoided if I had properly dealt with what was actually making me upset in the first place.

I usually push things to the side, not thinking about problems or emotions until they eventually boil over.

Giving myself time to be sad, however long or short I need, is so freeing — and so far, it has actually helped the sadness go away, without creeping back up. This take-charge-of-your-sadness attitude has helped me cope with problems and overcome challenges in my life. It’s helped me to manage my anxiety and have fewer panic attacks. It’s helped me to be less sad! As a bonus, it’s helped me to have more empathy when my kids or other people are feeling sad, instead of trying to get them to quickly move past their feelings and on to happier things like I usually do.

Look, I’m not saying I’m completely perfect or cured from a lifetime of pushing down my emotions. I know it’s a work in progress, but now that I know how great it feels to feel sad on my own terms, I never want to stop. This is me, going back to my preteen days of crying in my closet listening to Taylor Swift. Except now I have better shoes, a better speaker, and a better grasp on who I am and my own worth. Women are emotional — people are emotional — and I don’t give a damn anymore.

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How to Help Texans During the Winter Storm Crisis

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Winter storm Uri has left Texas in a state of crisis. After days of frigid weather, millions were left without heat or electricity as snow, ice, and freezing temperatures “caused a catastrophic failure of the state’s power grid,” according to the Houston Chronicle. As of Tuesday morning, more than 4.2 million customers had lost power, per Vox, all while some Texas cities had temperatures as low as four degrees Fahrenheit. In other areas, people have experienced rolling blackouts, where power is shut off for limited periods of time. Conditions outdoors are also exceptionally dangerous; last Thursday, CNN reported that at least nine people had died in car crashes related to the winter storms across the Dallas-Fort Worth area.

In response, President Joe Biden has declared a state of emergency in Texas, and the National Guard has been deployed to help local authorities get residents to one of 135 warming centers. Activists have also been working around the clock to find food, supplies, and shelter for Texans currently experiencing homelessness. Below, find just a few ways to help those across the state stay warm and housed throughout this storm:

  • Austin Mutual Aid is raising funds to book hotel rooms for residents living outside without water or shelter.
  • The Austin Area Urban League is hosting an emergency donation drive to aid in emergency support.
  • The Texas-based Ending Community Homelessness Coalition has put together a list of organizations that are currently working to support unsheltered people in Austin and Travis County.
  • The Solid Ground Ministry is now serving as a cold weather shelter for families and individuals. You can donate to their operations here.
  • The organization Maximizing Hope is raising money in order to purchase hotel rooms for people in the Austin area.
  • Dallas-area organizations Austin Street Center, OurCalling, The Stewpot, Union Gospel Mission, and Oak Lawn United Methodist Church are pooling money together to pay for temporary shelter as well as COVID-19 rapid tests for those in need.
  • Plus, if you live in Texas and do have power, you can also help your neighbors by trying to conserve electricity as much as possible. Find best practices here.

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    Naomi Osaka and Serena Williams Always Bring Intensity — Relive Their 4 Memorable Matches

    As one of the few indisputable GOATs we know of (see also: Biles, Phelps), Serena Williams has forced the entire sport of tennis to rise to her level and blazed a trail for other tennis players of color to follow. Case in point: Naomi Osaka, one of Williams’s most prominent current competitors, has said she “wouldn’t be here” if not for Serena and Venus Williams breaking down those barriers. Osaka’s father, meanwhile, said he kickstarted her career by following the example set by the Williams sisters. Flash forward to 2021, and 23-year-old Osaka is a star in her own right with three Grand Slams under her belt. And while she chases Williams, and Williams chases that elusive, record-tying 24th Grand Slam, their head-to-head matches have become can’t-miss entertainment.

    In honor of these incredible athletes squaring off in the Australian Open semi-finals tomorrow, take a trip down memory lane with us and relive Osaka and Williams’s four previous matches, from the infamous 2018 US Open Final (oh yeah, we’ll talk about that) to their latest exhibition matchup in Australia. Get ready for some great tennis and intense competition from two of the best athletes in the world.

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    Brandy on What It Was Like to Be the First Black Princess With Braids

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    For the State of Black Beauty, ELLE.com chatted with six Black icons to hear how they define Black beauty and how they see themselves in the space—in their own words.

    Beauty is really within. It’s really the person that you work on every day, to try to be the best version of yourself. And it definitely reflects on the outside. It makes people feel like they can relate to you—it shows in your eyes, in your skin, it radiates when you’ve really done the work on the inside. Being Black is icing on the cake. Ot means a different level of freedom and acceptance of yourself. And so many beautiful Black people in this world are so free in expressing themselves—they set the bar for people like me to do the same and follow in their footsteps.

    I don’t think too much about being a Black beauty icon. I think about being myself more than anything. So much of me growing up was living my life for other people around me. You want to stay true to yourself. It’s about being comfortable in my skin and expressing what’s in my heart and staying true to that.

    I think braids are so beautiful. It just speaks to the culture. I got a perm when I was about 15 and the perm damaged my hair. That’s how I was able to get the braids—they were a protective style. It’s a beautiful expression, it’s an art, and it takes so much time for the braid artists who are doing my hair. The art they express is unbelievable. I want to wear them for the rest of my life. Now, people are wearing them even more than I’ve seen in such a long time. That’s such a great thing. The twist, the lock—everybody is starting to really get into the braid culture, and it IS a culture.

    “To be the first Black princess with braids—it was unbelievable.”

    With Moesha, I didn’t know at the time how important it was and would be, but it was great to be able to be an example for other young girls that were trying to get into the industry and other Black girls who really didn’t see themselves on television. It all happened so fast, but I remember the honor to be one of the Black women that had their own TV show, and also with playing Cinderella—it did feel like making history.

    I was so busy trying to be famous, but when I look back, I’m like, Wow, that was such an amazing time. To be the first Black princess with braids—it was unbelievable. I’m just happy I was able to experience that.

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    It’s wild, looking back now, at how much I was able to do and how I was supported. From Whitney Houston, Debra Chase—one of the executive producers who chose me to be Cinderella—and my mom. Having those examples really helped me realize all of my dreams. I was told that I could be whatever I wanted to be, and when I was myself, I got the call from Whitney Houston, in the middle of the day at my home where I grew up, to be Cinderella with my braids. It was unbelievable.

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    Kali Uchis Sings Gwen Stefani, Billie Holiday, and ‘Dead to Me’ in a Game of Song Association

    When Kali Uchis​ titled her debut album Isolation back in 2018, she had no idea she was predicting the future. Isolation, however, has proven to be no hurdle for the Colombian-American vocalist—releasing an EP, an album, and topping the Billboard charts during this time. Tune in as Uchis plays a game of Song Association​ and sings “Dead to Me,”​ Billie Holiday, Gwen Stefani, and more in a race against the clock!

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    10 Low-Calorie Soups That Make For Easy and Healthy Lunches

    Is there really anything better than having a warm cup of soup for lunch on a chilly day? They make for quick and easy meals you can eat just about anywhere. Not all options are healthy, though, so to make sure you get something that works for your diet, we did the searching for you. From low-carb to low-sodium options, we found 10 tasty picks that all fall under 200 calories. Plus, they’re filling, delicious, and sound pretty perfect right about now. So what are you waiting for? Keep reading to shop our favorite low-calorie choices.

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    Gabrielle Union on the Poison of American Assimilation and Raising Her Daughters to Embrace Their Blackness

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    For the State of Black Beauty, ELLE.com chatted with six Black icons to hear how they define Black beauty and how they see themselves in the space—in their own words.

    I don’t think I fell back in love with myself until relatively recently, and some of that self-love has come from learning to embrace my natural beauty, especially my hair texture. I wore relaxers starting from the time I was eight and didn’t stop until my thirties. I didn’t even wear braids professionally, which might’ve been the first time ever really—until Almost Christmas, which was five or six years ago. Something happened around my 40s where I just fell in love with myself. I emptied my basket of fucks. And that’s the attitude I hope to pass onto my daughters—shameless self-love.

    At the beginning of my career, when I was doing modeling gigs in Los Angeles, I wasn’t pushed to look any type of way. I had edited myself for so much of my life that they didn’t really need to do anything. What I found was that they were not prepared if I didn’t come with my hair already done fresh from the salon. They wouldn’t have hair stylists who knew what to do with 4B hair. And most of the time the makeup artists wouldn’t have the right color foundation. It wasn’t until much later, when I was acting and doing photo shoots, where you could see Photoshop minimizing my butt or bringing in my weight.

    We very much push assimilation in this country. [We’re] not about standing out, having your own identity, or your own look. I like to use the phrase “being the chip in the cookie,” because when you’re so thoroughly surrounded by a Eurocentric standard of beauty, your relationship with yourself and your looks can be a really precarious road. You’ve never seen yourself reflected: not in teachers, not in coaches, not in the magazines. And whatever affirming words or images that you would get from home, you’re at school more than you’re anywhere else, and you’re not being reaffirmed there. It opens the door for so much self-loathing and putting yourself up to the impossible task of trying to shapeshift into something you will literally never be.

    “I wore relaxers starting from the time I was eight and didn’t stop until my thirties.”

    And then you add in respectability politics, oftentimes coming from people who do look like us. There’s this idea that you have to look this way. You have to sound this way. You have to dress this way. You need to go to these schools and live in these neighborhoods. And if you do all of these things then they’ll accept you. Then, you’ll have value.

    It’s interesting because I thought my mom actually did a good job of raising her three Black daughters to have representation by way of magazines and books and making sure we were present and connected to the Black community, even though we weren’t living in the Black community. But as much as she was doing, it paled in comparison to being at school and in sports in largely white spaces. What I’m trying to do with our two daughters is understand that if I cannot provide a school environment that is as diverse as the global population, I have to do more to constantly make sure the girls are reaffirmed.

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    It’s not just enough to hand them a magazine or a book or watching Black Is King on a loop. We have to surround them with additional teachers they may not see at school. It becomes another job. Part of that is constantly reaffirming their Blackness outside of them so they can constantly see themselves in the flesh, mirroring what we’re teaching at home. I think that was the piece my mom missed because we just didn’t live close enough to the Black communities, or have more of my parents’ friends or any other kids’ friends who looked like us. It created a gap that we all fell in.

    But we’re trying to bridge that gap and be very purposeful about the schools the kids go to and what their faculty and administration physically look like. And then, if there’s not enough kids in the school creating outside peer groups, just keep reaffirming. Then you have to hope for the best. Every kid is different, so it’s a bit of a crapshoot. And as the world keeps changing, there’s so much anti-Blackness that keeps rising up. You just have to be diligent to fight it with self-love and the elevation of Blackness.

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    Alexander McQueen’s Spring ’99 Show Feat. Shalom Harlow – #TBT With Tim Blanks – Style.com

    Alexander McQueen’s career had many high points, but his Spring ’99 collection proved to be among his most visionary work as a designer. Featuring Aimee Mullins on a pair of custom-designed prosthetic legs and a riveting grand finale with Shalom Harlow, the collection showcased McQueen’s unparalleled talent and unique understanding of beauty.

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    Hayley Williams Welcomes Us Into Her Home in Intimate New Solo Album

    Healing is not linear, and no one knows that better than Hayley Williams. The orange-haired beauty released her emotions one guitar solo and vocal riff at a time as the lead singer of Paramore, the emo rock band so many of us grew up with. In early February, she dropped her second solo album, FLOWERS FOR VASES/descansos, a self-proclaimed prequel to her first solo outing, Petals For Armor. The new album is a visceral window into the pain that once influenced her life, painting an image of a dead garden suffocated by weeds and not yet ready to be planted, let alone bloom.

    Williams posted on her Instagram Story that the album was written in the Nashville home where she’s been living since Paramore released their 2017 album After Laughter. “I wrote and performed this album in [its] entirety,” she wrote. “That’s a career first for me.” That’s apparent. The sound is unlike anything Williams has released before, a soft alternative folk that invites us in in a way that feels forbidden. Similar to that feeling of reading your sibling’s diary or a text message that wasn’t meant for you, the 14 tracks feel like a peek into the rambling mind of a woman who is comfortable being transparent about her vulnerabilities. The title says it all with the Spanish word descansos, which means rest; it’s also a word for the crosses you often see on the side of the road, memorials for those who died in that spot. It’s no wonder many of these songs are reminiscent of an elegy.

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    The lulling sound of Williams’ voice and instrumental carries through the tracks, with standouts such as “Asystole” offering an upbeat reprieve. The antithesis of its medical definition, a serious and irreversible heart attack, the song leaves listeners thinking it’s over before pulling them back in with a resurgent string instrumental. Williams bares all in “Trigger,” her wispy voice coated in disappointment with the realization that those you trust may not truly care about you. And “Descansos,” perhaps the most powerful song on the album, has no lyrics, but its somber sound foreshadows the end, with a slight hope of more as Williams’ vocal runs wrap you in a much-needed hug.

    Williams bares this side of herself after a tumultuous year that was difficult for everyone. With exposed personal lyrics, a new, more ethereal sound, and layered, enveloping vocals, Williams is embracing sadness and the unknown in her life more than ever before. From start to finish, the album relays a story of heartbreak, childhood sadness, and ignorant hope that many listeners will likely relate to. The overarching message? It’s okay to be sad. You’re allowed to hold onto things that aren’t good for you. We all heal differently.

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    It’s a message particularly potent to Williams’ fans, and she’s proven their importance to her over and over during promotion for FLOWERS FOR VASES/descansos. She sent plastic doll limbs, black roses, and even an unreleased song to different fans, stirring hype in the weeks preceding the album drop. She’s been very vocal about her love and support for them on her social media, and recently revealed her amusement over the resurrection of old Paramore songs on TikTok. It’s no a surprise that she’s able to be so open in her music—she can trust that her fans will be there and, of course, cry along to her songs.

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    With Williams making her own music, there’s always the fear that her beloved band will be on hiatus indefinitely, but she assured fans with a simple note: “Yes, Paramore is still a band.” And we can only hope that yes, she will continue making music we can sing at the top of our lungs, ugly cry to in our car, and, one day, experience together again in concert.

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    Sephora Just Launched Makeup Bags with Brother Vellies Designer Aurora James

    Finding a makeup bag that doubles as a designer clutch may not be a priority when it comes to organizing your products. But whether you carry a minimalist five-step routine or every red lipstick known to mankind, investing in a makeup bag that is both chic and functional will instantly upgrade your life. Beauty giant Sephora has just joined forces with fashion brand Brother Vellies—designed and founded by Aurora James—to launch a limited-edition collection of makeup bags you’ll want the world to see.

    The collection includes three designs, some which take inspiration from Brother Vellies’ artisan style and worldly designs like Doodle Bag: a saddle pouch illustrated with Brother Vellies’ signature doodle graphic design featured on the brand’s popular cowboy boot. Also featured in the collection is a 3-in-1 PVC square bag that has two small pouches inside, one a faux alligator brown and the other a cheetah print. The best part? The bags won’t break the bank with each bag under $50.

    “Over two years in the making, we are thrilled to finally share these bags with the world,” says James. “We could not imagine partnering with any brand but Sephora on this collaboration.”

    The partnership between Sephora and Brother Vellies goes beyond the designer bag collection. The beauty retailer took the 15 percent pledge, which was founded and pioneered by the Brother Vellies designer, committing at least 15 percent of shelf space to Black-owned brands.

    “We are so proud of their efforts to bring more diversity to their shelves,” adds James. “This coupled with Brother Vellies’ goal of keeping artisan design practices and techniques alive, is the type of energy that we continue to support.”

    James has also been signed as a brand partner for Sephora’s new cohort, the 2021 Accelerate program, which uniquely features only BIPOC brands.

    “We’ve long admired both the Brother Vellies brand and all that Aurora herself has done to advance diversity and inclusion in retail and beyond,” says Brooke Banwart, the vice president and general manager of Sephora Collection North America. “With the launch of this collaboration, we’re thrilled to be able to make Brother Vellies accessories available to all Sephora shoppers, continuing to deliver on our promise of high-quality goods at an affordable price point.”

    The limited-edition Sephora x Brother Vellies collection ranges from $30 to $48 and is available to shop beginning February 12 at Sephora and Sephora.com. SHOP

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    Adonis Bosso and Jazzelle’s Careers Were Going Nowhere—Until They Stopped Trying To Fit In

    Photography by GREG SWALES. On Bosso: Top and pants, prices upon request, Casablanca. Necklace, price upon request, Misho. On Jazzelle: Tops, vintage. Pants, $2,340, Patou. Earrings, $85, Kendra Scott.

    Owning their uniqueness is what pushed our March cover stars to the top of the modelling game.

    Adonis Bosso was in the priority line to board a recent flight from Paris when the gate agent waved him away. “‘I’m SkyPriority,’ I said as I showed her my pass,” he recalls. “And she looked at me like, ‘Really?’” That’s just one example of the daily micro-aggressions Bosso says he faces as a Black man. But speaking via Zoom from his home in Toronto, where he was quarantining after returning from FASHION’s cover shoot in Los Angeles, he conveys the incident with such nonchalance, and such a lack of anger or bitterness, that it’s clear that racism is as routine to him as brushing his teeth.

    He also faced it, though in a more systemic way, when he began modelling in the early 2010s. “I would often be the only Black model in a show or campaign,” says Bosso, who is casually dressed in a grey Zara track suit with a smoky-topaz pendant that matches his skin tone. “There was not much diversity on the runways or in the industry.” That meant there wasn’t much demand for models with his “look” so agencies didn’t have more than a token few people of colour on their rosters. Bosso was lucky to have found a niche in Montreal, where he grew up, earning $700 a day shooting for Ssense.com. But he was rejected by every agency he visited in New York and Europe.

    Photography by GREG SWALES. On Jazzelle: Dress, $1,205, and shoes, $1,775, Sacai. Bra, $230, BustedBrand. Underwear, $15, Victoria’s Secret. Earrings, $185, Éliou. Socks, $70, S.R. Studio. LA. CA. On Bosso: Sweater, $5,465, and pants, $1,140, S.R. Studio. LA. CA. Boots, $1,400, Bottega Veneta. Ring, Bosso’s own.

    Jazzelle, who is best known by her Instagram handle @uglyworldwide, found similar barriers when she started modelling in her hometown of Detroit. “They kept telling me: ‘You’re a light-skinned, curly-haired girl. You can’t do high fashion. You don’t have the body or the face for it,’” she recalls, also via Zoom, while sipping tea in her Brooklyn apartment, an industrial space with a grid of exposed pipes hanging from the ceiling. After graduating from high school, she moved to Chicago, where her sporadic jobs were for department stores like Sears. At the same time, she became known in the LGBTQ+ nightlife scene for her drag performances. “You don’t need to be a man in a dress,” she responds when asked for her definition of drag. “It’s a hyper-real version of whatever you feel deep inside.” When her agency told her that her lifestyle wasn’t going over well with clients, she walked.

    Both models were so demoralized that they took drastic steps. But that’s when their luck changed. Jazzelle shaved her head and eyebrows. A week later, influential British photographer Nick Knight scouted her on Instagram and then flew her to London for a Comme des Garçons shoot for AnOther Magazine.

    Photography by GREG SWALES. On Bosso: Jacket, $1,650, and pants, $1,000, Celine Homme by Hedi Slimane. Necklace, price upon request, Misho. On Jazzelle: Jacket, $1,585, Celine by Hedi Slimane. Pants, $125, Levi’s. Necklace, $365, Pamela Love. Bracelet, $145, Éliou.

    Bosso, in Paris on a fruitless hunt for an agent, decided on the spur of the moment to get a septum ring. He later returned to New York and got offers from agents left, right and centre. He signed with DNA Model Management, followed by agencies in Milan and London. “I think it made me interesting,” says Bosso, who has since added “musician” to his skill set. “It started the birth of a character.” He chose @septumpapi for his Instagram handle and turned himself into a cartoon for the fall release of his song “No More.” He conceived, wrote and storyboarded the anime-style music video, which also features model Slick Woods, the mother of their two-year-old son, Saphir.

    “His mom and I are no longer together, so this way Saphir can see his parents together as superheroes flying around,” explains Bosso. He is planning a full visual album and action figures based on himself and Woods. “It’s given me a new universe of creativity.”

    Photography by GREG SWALES. On Bosso: Top, price upon request, Casablanca. Shorts, price upon request, Boss. Necklace, price upon request, Misho. Socks, $20 for three pairs, Vans. On Jazzelle: Top, $445, S.R. Studio. LA. CA. Earrings, $275, Elsie Frieda. Bracelet, $150, Éliou.

    “Adonis is so artistically inspired that it has led him to be an outstanding model,” comments Tony Craig, a freelance creative director who now runs DNA Model Management’s men’s division. Before becoming Bosso’s agent, Craig and his partner, photographer Idris Rheubottom, worked with Bosso on commercial and editorial shoots. “He was our muse for many years. We did some of our best work with him. He is not afraid to help create a vision.”

    Having a voice, and using it, marks a major shift in what a model is expected to bring to the table. “It has changed so much,” comments Jazzelle’s agent, Luiza Zyskowska, who’s with The Society Management in New York. “It’s not just about having the right height and size; clients are looking for a lot more depth. A beautiful face will only get you so far. There’s so much more to it these days.”

    Photography by GREG SWALES. On Bosso: Top, price upon request, Casablanca. Shorts, price upon request, Boss. Necklace, price upon request, Misho. Socks, $20 for three pairs, Vans. On Jazzelle: Top, $445, S.R. Studio. LA. CA. Earrings, $275, Elsie Frieda. Bracelet, $150, Éliou.

    “Models shouldn’t be there just to be your playthings, to be dressed up like dolls,” declares Jazzelle. “We’re real people, with real opinions, and a lot of us have real taste. A lot of us are artists.”

    Jazzelle is wearing a giant teddy hat by Ottolinger (“one of my favourite brands right now”) and a pale-blue oversized coat from her friend, stylist Anna Trevelyan. Her voice is gravelly, thanks to a few days spent marking her 25th birthday, and her delivery is as feisty as her look. But she has a lot to celebrate: Over the past year, she has racked up campaigns for Fenty, Fendi, Gucci Beauty and Maybelline New York and her Instagram following has swelled to 600,000+.

    Photography by GREG SWALES. Jacket, $2,860, Valentino. Shirt, $250, Levi’s Vintage Clothing. Top, $20 for three, Hanes. Earrings, $370, Pamela Love. Necklace, $320, Éliou.

    Jazzelle’s platform is a showcase for her art, for which she largely uses herself as a canvas. “I like to switch it up and do really exciting things with my face and body,” she says. “I like to keep it fresh and new; I need change.” Her transformations can range from surreal alien to sexy skater girl. And her body is a work in progress, too. She had a breast reduction: “Since I’m gender fluid and a bit androgynous, having huge tits didn’t feel like me.” And she’s removing the tattoos from her upper body, replacing them with white stick-and-poke “hieroglyphics” from a language that she and Grace Neutral, a tattoo artist in London, created from Japanese and Russian characters and numerical symbols: “There are important dates, places and times. It’s my short life story in code.” She’s keeping the bandage, stitches and other markings on her legs, though. “I think it’s important to fall down and get back up and have fun while you do it,” she says. “That’s the story my knees tell.”

    Photography by GREG SWALES. On Jazzelle: Dress and vest, prices upon request, Louis Vuitton. Shoes, $80, Vans. On Bosso: Jacket, $3,170, shorts, $1,080, shoes, $750, and socks, price upon request, Amiri. Ring, Bosso’s own.

    Her name, Jazzelle, is a combo of her parents’ interests: “jazz” for her dad and “elle” for the magazine. Her mother, a retired nurse, is originally from Toronto, and her father sells school books around the United States and is a jazz singer and pianist. Jazzelle’s creative leanings began to emerge when she was a child. “The only things I cared about in school were art class, lunch and recess,” she recalls. “I got made fun of a lot and didn’t fit in. I was an awkward, weird kid so I don’t know if I was made fun of for my personality or my looks. I remember feeling very insecure about myself all the time. But I still carried on dressing how I wanted and being a weirdo.”

    Photography by GREG SWALES. Coat, price upon request, Boss. Jacket and skirt, prices upon request, Miu Miu. Shoes, $90, Reebok.

    She created the term “Uglyworldwide” after an artist friend remarked that a series of portraits she had done was ugly. “I took that and ran with it and started tagging my paintings and drawings Uglyworldwide,” she says. “I like for everyone to take whatever meaning they want from it because it means something different to everyone. I don’t call myself Uglyworldwide because I think I’m ugly—but sometimes I do. It’s ups and downs with self-confidence.”

    “I think it’s genius,” says Bosso of Jazzelle’s “ugly” persona. “The word ‘ugly’ brings out so much emotion.” It also lines up with how society is shifting away from narrow definitions of beauty set by the fashion elites, he adds. “We are no longer seeking to be perfect. We are seeking to be ourselves.”

    Photography by GREG SWALES. On Bosso: Jacket, $1,650, and pants, $1,000, Celine Homme by Hedi Slimane. Necklace, price upon request, Misho. On Jazzelle: Jacket, $1,585, Celine by Hedi Slimane. Pants, $125, Levi’s. Necklace, $365, Pamela Love. Bracelet, $145, Éliou.

    The meaning behind Bosso’s given name, which is pretty much the opposite of ugly, has even more weight. His parents lost a son, also named Adonis, when he was a month old. The second Adonis became ill when he was young, so the family hightailed it out of the Ivory Coast to seek better treatment for him and wound up in Sweden and then Montreal. “They never told me what the illness was, only that it was life-threatening,” he says.

    His parents went on to have five more children, including brother Steve, who is autistic, so special needs is the path that Bosso thought his career would take. In 2014, the family created the Centre d’Intégration TSA, a centre that provides support, information and respite for people with autism, in Montreal and aims to open a second one in Toronto.

    Photography by GREG SWALES. On Jazzelle: Top, $1,005, and skirt, $1,780, Gucci. Earrings, $260, Misho. On Bosso: Vest, $1,780, and pants, $1,400, Gucci. Necklaces, from $120, Margaux Studios.

    Bosso, meanwhile, is working on his music career while adding to a lengthy client list that includes Adidas x Ivy Park, Topshop, Levi’s and H&M. His latest campaign is with Saphir for Zara.

    Jazzelle is spreading her wings by contributing more on shoots. “Now I’m not just hired to be a model; they ask me for creative input,” she says. She did a collab with Gucci Beauty last summer and recently did her own makeup for a print editorial. “Being more involved as a model and an artist at the same time is a big turning point in my career. I want to be a part of the creative process, and that’s something that is happening. My art is being respected.”

    Photography by GREG SWALES. On Bosso: Jacket, $3,170, top, price upon request, shorts, $1,080, shoes, $750, and socks, price upon request, Amiri. Necklace, price upon request, Misho. Nose ring and bracelet, Bosso’s own. On Jazzelle: Dress and vest, prices upon request, Louis Vuitton. Shoes, $80, Vans. Earring, Jazzelle’s own.

    Photography by GREG SWALES. Styling by CHRIS HORAN. Creative direction by GEORGE ANTONOPOULOS. Hair by ANDREW FITZSIMONS FOR ANDREW FITZSIMONS HAIRCARE AT PRIMARK. Makeup by MICHAEL ANTHONY FOR FORWARD ARTISTS/ARMANI BEAUTY. Fashion assistant: LAUREN JEWORSKI AND SADE RADFAR. 

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    Meghan Markle and Prince Harry Are Giving Oprah the First Interview Since Stepping Back From Royal Family

    Meghan Markle and Prince Harry will be sitting down with Oprah Winfrey for their first public interview since their move out of royal life and to the U.S. The interview will air on CBS on Sunday, March 7 at 8 p.m.

    The interview will feature Meghan talking about “a wide-ranging interview covering everything from stepping into life as a royal, marriage, motherhood (and) philanthropic work, to how she is handling life under intense public pressure,” the network said in a statement.

    Per Deadline, Meghan will speak first with Winfrey, and then the couple will be joined by Prince Harry. As many royal fans will recall, Winfrey was a guest at the Sussex’s wedding in May 2018, and she lives near their new home in Montecito, California.

    This news comes one day after a spokesperson for the couple confirmed that they are expecting their second child.

    “We can confirm that Archie is going to be a big brother. The Duke and Duchess of Sussex are overjoyed to be expecting their second child,” the spokesperson wrote on Twitter. The announcement was accompanied by a photo taken by friend and photographer Misan Harriman.

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    Royal experts pointed out that Meghan and Harry chose a significant day to announce their baby news: 37 years ago, Princess Diana and Prince Charles announced that they were having a second child. That baby, as we all know now, was Prince Harry.

    In November of 2020, Meghan Markle revealed, in a moving personal essay in The New York Times, that she had a miscarriage in July of that year.

    “After changing [Archie’s] diaper, I felt a sharp cramp,” she wrote. “I dropped to the floor with him in my arms, humming a lullaby to keep us both calm, the cheerful tune a stark contrast to my sense that something was not right. I knew, as I clutched my firstborn child, that I was losing my second…We have learned that when people ask how any of us are doing, and when they really listen to the answer, with an open heart and mind, the load of grief often becomes lighter—for all of us. In being invited to share our pain, together we take the first steps toward healing.”

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    Machine Gun Kelly Revealed That He Wears Megan Fox’s Blood Around His Neck

    Machine Gun Kelly and Megan Fox have been dating for nearly a year, and while they don’t appear to be at the engagement stage, they are at the…wearing a necklace containing your partner’s blood stage. In a Valentine’s Day post, MGK (Colson Baker) shared two photos with the caption, “i wear your blood around my neck 🔪🩸.”

    If that caption makes you raise an eyebrow or two, just take a look at the second photo in the gallery:

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    That does appear to be a drop of Fox’s blood trapped inside a pendant. Is anyone else getting flashbacks of Angelina Jolie and Billy Bob Thornton’s vials of blood? By posting this photo, MGK also made a reference to his 2020 song with Travis Barker, Bloody Valentine.” He geotagged the gallery with the title of his album and, of course, shared a literal picture of his girlfriend’s blood.

    The couple met on the set of their movie, Midnight in the Switchgrass, and their relationship has gotten pretty serious in recent months. At the end of January, they sparked engagement rumors, but Fox posted a very photo on her Instagram story of a ring on her left hand that read “Fuck you.” She appeared to get the message across that she and MGK are not engaged.

    Later, a source confirmed to People that the couple is not engaged, but added that marriage will be in their future.

    “They are very serious and plan on spending the future together. There will be an engagement at some point, but they are not engaged now.”

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    Can’t Get Your Second Vaccine Dose on Time? Don’t Panic — Here’s What a Doctor Says to Do

    The Pfizer and Moderna vaccines both require two separate doses to reach their full effectiveness, which are given 21 or 28 days after the first dose, respectively. But vaccine distribution around the country has been disorganized (to put it lightly), and if for whatever reason you can’t get your second shot right on time, don’t panic. We asked a doctor if this is a serious problem and what to do if you miss that second dose day.

    What Should I Do If I Can’t Get My Second Vaccine Shot on Time?

    “You can get your second dose later,” said Aruna Subramanian, MD, an infectious disease doctor at Stanford. There’s nothing inherently harmful about getting it after that three- or four-week waiting period, she explained; it’s just that, by waiting longer, you’re spending more time without the full protection you get with both doses.

    The 21- or 28-day window between doses is the minimum recommended time for you to wait, Dr. Subramanian explained, a period that allows your immune system to mount a response before the second shot. “If you go beyond that time, there’s nothing dangerous about it,” she told POPSUGAR. The reason that specific waiting period is recommended is because doctors don’t want you to completely skip your second dose.

    That being said, if you can’t get your shot on the recommended day, make sure you get it as soon as possible after. You don’t want to go longer than you have to without full protection. This isn’t a case where your vaccination window has closed, Dr. Subramanian said; the second dose will still be effective, and you should absolutely still get it, even if it’s late.

    So, in conclusion: if you’re getting a two-dose vaccine (either Pfizer or Moderna), sign up for your second dose on the recommended day. But if you have to miss that, no need to panic — you can get your shot later and it will still be effective. And as always, continue to take the CDC’s recommended safety precautions both before and after you’re vaccinated by wearing a mask, social distancing, and washing your hands frequently.

    POPSUGAR aims to give you the most accurate and up-to-date information about the coronavirus, but details and recommendations about this pandemic may have changed since publication. For the latest information on COVID-19, please check out resources from the WHO, CDC, and local public health departments.

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    Gigi Hadid Shares Rare New Photos of Her and Zayn Malik in Valentine’s Day Posts

    Gigi Hadid and Zayn Malik have been keeping their daughter’s life off social media, but on Valentine’s Day the couple didn’t hold back on sharing their love. On her Instagram story, Hadid shares several sweet photos of and with Malik for the holiday:

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    She even shared this photo of Malik walking their daughter, Khai, in her stroller:

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    Gigi HadidInstagram

    Here’s another one of Zayn holding his “Dad” mug:

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    The couple welcomed Khai in September 2020, but they didn’t reveal her name until last month, when Hadid subtly changed her Instagram bio to “khai’s mom.” If you looked closely at the Hadid-Malik Christmas tree in December, though, you would have seen the baby’s name on a present (you have have had to look really close).

    A source close to the couple told TMZ that they named their baby Khai in tribute to Hadid’s grandmother Khairiah on her father’s side.

    Khai means “crowned” in Arabic.

    In January, a source told Entertainment Tonight that Gigi and Zayn “share the same values when it comes to culture, family and parenting. Gigi and Zayn both have very close relationships with their families and raising their daughter with that same loving environment is very important to them.”

    Hadid has also spoken out recently about how she and Malik want to raise their daughter and are adamant about giving her the chance to live a quiet life surrounded by nature.

    I think she’ll definitely be raised here,” Gigi said in an interview with Vogue, referring to her family’s farm in Pennsylvania, where Khai was born. “The greenery and the farm-y lifestyle are similar to what made me feel really centered as a kid, and I think that’s really important to Zayn and me. I think that just giving your child the opportunity to explore different interests is such a beautiful thing.”

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    SNL’s Passive-Aggressive “Pelotaunt” Commercial Is Made For Anyone Who Hates Peppy Workouts

    I’m all for an energetic coach or motivational at-home YouTube workouts, but every so often, I’m not in the mood for someone else’s pep. If I come to a workout with a five energy level and the instructor greets me with a 1,005, it’ll take all my strength to not turn around, walk away, and crawl back in bed. Clearly, the writers at Saturday Night Live feel similarly, and they’ve infused those vibes into a hilarious sketch poking fun at Peloton specifically.

    During Feb. 13’s episode, SNL cast members Kate McKinnon, Bowen Yang, Ego Nwodim, Beck Bennett, and more imagine a world where “Pelotaunt” instructors try to humiliate and, by default, motivate exercise bike users. “I feel mentally broken down, but hey, I can see my abs,” Bennett quips. The skit certainly resonated with viewers online, who joked they’d try out the Pelotaunt IRL — we’ll unpack what that means later, I guess. In the meantime, check out the unfortunately funny skit in full above.

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    Why Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas Aren’t Together on Valentine’s Day

    Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas are celebrating Valentines Day separately this year, but Jonas didn’t let his wife go without several (and I mean several!) red roses.

    “I wish you were here @nickjonas ❤️ just a couple of roses.. 😆,” she wrote.

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    Chopra also posted this photo for Jonas, writing, “My forever Valentine. I love you”:

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    On his grid, Jonas posted a sweet Valentine’s Day message for Chopra, alongside a photo of the two of them riding horses on the beach.

    “Where ever you go, I’ll go, cause we’re in it together,” he wrote. “For better or worse, hold on, cause it only gets better. 🎵 Happy Valentine’s Day @priyankachopra thank you for filling every day with happiness and peace. I love you to the moon and back. ❤️”

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    Chopra is filming a movie in London right now, and Jonas is back in Los Angeles, where he is filming The Voice. He posted this photo on his story this weekend:

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    Jonas also posted to support Chopra’s project, White Tiger, which came out on Netflix in January. “The White Tiger is out now on @netflix!!! ,” he wrote. “So incredibly proud of my wife @priyankachopra for her work as both an actor and a producer on this movie. Everyone do yourself a favor and go watch this movie right now! Congrats to the entire cast and crew and creative team.”

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    Although the couple is apart right now, they did get to spend Christmas together in London.

    “Merry Christmas everyone! Sending love to you and your loved ones! @pandathepunk and @ginothegerman mommy and daddy miss you pups!,” Jonas wrote.

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    Speaking of “Mommy and Daddy,” Chopra and Jonas are reportedly planning to start their family soon. A source told Entertainment Tonight that the two “been talking about having children in their near future,” a source told ET. The source continued: “The couple has always wanted kids.”

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    Ashlyn Harris and Ali Krieger Adopted a Baby — and Sent the Sweetest Note to Her Birth Mom

    Soccer power couple Ashlyn Harris and Ali Krieger made a big announcement on Valentine’s Day: they adopted a baby daughter! In sweet dual posts on Instagram, the 2019 World Cup champs shared that their baby, Sloane Phillips, was born on Feb. 12, and also took the time to send a heartfelt message to her birth mom.

    “Our promise to you: We promise Sloane will be loved every single day by us, our friends and our family,” wrote Harris and Krieger, who play together on the US women’s national soccer team and on the NWSL’s Orlando Pride. “We promise to give her the tools to live a happy, successful life of inclusivity and support. We promise to share her adoption story with her from the very beginning and celebrate every milestone!” The soccer stars pledged to encourage Sloane to follow her dreams and to respect her birth mom’s wishes to have future communication, adding, “she will always know how much you love her!”

    Harris and Krieger also noted how difficult the adoption process was, but how it was all worth it in the end. “To all my adoptive families out there. Wow, we see you,” wrote Harris. “Whew, this has been a very stressful process. I’m hopeful to tell our story one day but for now . . . we can breathe again.”

    Already the love is rolling in from their USWNT teammates. “There is so much joy in this pic,” said Alex Morgan, who became a mom herself last year. “You will be the absolute best mamas to Sloane.” Megan Rapinoe added: “Sissies so proud of you and happy for you. Your family is so beautiful.” We couldn’t agree more. So excited for the newest little addition to the USWNT fam!

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    Blake Lively Trolls Ryan Reynolds on Instagram for Valentine’s Day

    Just as Michelle and Barack Obama never fail to share the love on holidays and special occasions, Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds never pass up the chance to lovingly troll each other. Today, for her Valentine’s Day Instagram message, Lively posted a video of Reynolds helping her dye her hair (assuming this was taken during this past year of at-home hairstyling).

    “That time I f*d my hairdresser,” she wrote.

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    Reynolds’s post for Lively wasn’t exactly a troll—at least he was a little more subtle about it, if it is. “My forever valentine for the foreseeable future,” Reynolds wrote. “Forseeable future” has a hint of troll, but…we’ll give it to him. It’s a sweet post. He included a slow-motion video of Lively having the time of her life while sledding.

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    And he included this shot as well:

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    In November 2020, when Reynolds, who was born in Canada, voted for the first time, Lively was sure to give him a little bit of a hard time.

    “It was Ryan’s first time,” Lively wrote. “He was understandably scared. It all happened so fast. Like, REALLY fast. He wept. I pretended to weep. Then he called all his friend. #voteearly”

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    Reynolds went along with the joke: “This is my first time voting in America,” he wrote. “I’d like to thank my wife Blake for making my first time so gentle and loving. It was super scary at first, then exciting and now I’m a little tired. But proud. #VoteEarly”

    Happy Valentine’s Day, you two.

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    Sweat With Us During Our 200th Instagram Live Workout — and 3 Other Intense Routines

    Yep, you read the headline right: we’re officially hitting our 200th live workout this week on Instagram, and as always, you’re invited! Of course, we also think you should join in on the other live routines we have streaming this week on our Instagram page and YouTube channel, including a cardio HIIT workout, a mediation and Reiki healing session, and a belly dancing lesson. We’re all about variety, celebration, and sweat this week, and you don’t want to miss out. Check out the full schedule below and check out our previous live workouts to see what you’ve been missing!

    • 30-Minute No-Equipment Cardio HIIT With PUMP Fitness MTL Founder Val DesJardins (Instagram Live): Tuesday, Feb. 16, at 9 a.m. PT/12 p.m. ET
    • 30-Minute Belly Dancing Workout With Leilah Issac (YouTube Live): Wednesday, Feb. 17, at 9 a.m. PT/12 p.m. ET
    • Special 200th IG Live Workout With LIT Method (Instagram Live): Thursday, Feb. 18, at 9 a.m. PT/12 p.m. ET
    • 20-Minute Ocean-Inspired Meditation and Reiki Healing Session with Julia Jovone (Instagram Live): Friday, Feb. 19, at 9 a.m. PT/12 p.m. ET

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    Beauty

    Tina Turner Became The Woman I Wanted to Be

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    The moment you feel seen is powerful. For many Black women, that feeling is few and far between. For the State of Black Beauty, we asked four writers to recall the instance in their life they felt SEEN in media. From Janet Jackson to Eartha Kitt, here are love letters to our Black Beauty icons who made us feel a little less invisible.

    When Tina Turner burst into my life, I was sitting cross-legged on my grandmother’s shaggy carpet flipping through a glossy coffee table book. I had been staring at the book for months at this point, always eyeing the face on the cover. At the time, it felt like a spectacle, something I had no business touching. Tina Turner was in motion on the cover. And even when she’s not moving in photographic form, she’s moving.

    I finally picked it up, and these photographs became my first interaction with Turner’s physical form and beauty choices. How she wore her hair, the color of her lipstick, the dress hems that danced on her upper thighs. As much as these details are accessories in the big life of Tina Turner, these were also players in defining her career as a Black recording artist. I could tell her beauty choices were an extension of what she had been through in her life, starting in Nutbush, Tennessee. She had a point of view of the world and on love. I so badly wanted that ability, too.

    The Queen of Rock and Roll initially hopped onto the scene with The Ike & Tina Revue in the late 1950s, there was one thing she really had on the other girls. She danced wildly. And when her limbs shook, her dark hair followed.

    When Turner emerged again as the comeback kid in 1984, free from Ike Turner and an abusive marriage, she debuted a sharper look. Her hair was cut into a shoulder-length bob with blunt, tousled pieces and lots of volume. It was the style that went on to define the ‘80s. Her hair, as in her wigs, the ones she cut and shaped herself from the beginning of her career. I watched a Youtube clip of her getting ready for a show in Budapest: furiously putting brown eyeshadow on her lids. Tina was not moving slowly — on stage or off — so you could see her. She wasn’t consumed with being for everyone. She was not aiming to be liked. She had already tried that. Now, she was aiming to be Tina. She was a woman who had found her place to be a long time ago: on stage. And her beauty was not buttoned up.

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    And although her signature shag has changed slightly over the years, it’s always matched her attitude. I soon began to realize that Tina’s beauty was a reflection of what she wanted people to know about her. I wanted to know how she had become that way. So I looked to my grandmother, the owner of that coffee table book.

    We called my grandmother Bum Bum. In many ways, she was my first Tina Turner. Born Blondine Harvin, she stood about 5”2 and wore a sandy blonde wig. She was the owner of Gigi’s Restaurant for 50 years, a place that served as a community center and meeting point on the east side of the city. That sandy blonde wig became her signature look during the decades she served. Often, she’d switch it up and wear a more platinum blonde version. You could spot her weaving around tables with plates of grits with cheese (or no cheese.)

    I remember watching my grandmother, who loved the jack table and a whiskey, fly to a Tina concert in Las Vegas, or Buffalo. My grandmother liked to step out for dinner, the casino, or a concert, and Turner was part of her entertainment world. As my dad reminded me: my grandmother was a socialite of sorts. “She was a business owner known around the city, and she owned a place where people came to be seen. Tina Turner was probably playing in the jukebox.”

    “I think she was someone from her era she could relate to,” my dad said. For my grandmother, Tina’s journey was as paramount as her music. She was my grandmother’s image of an independent Black woman thriving as the 20th century came to a close.” My grandmother passed in 2019, after living her entire life like Tina: completely herself.

    As Tina aged, she never stopped showing off. Her dresses did not get longer. Her hair did not grow more tamed. It actually got bigger, and she started to experiment with stronger streaks of blonde. Despite the makeup commitment it takes to be onstage, her foundation application still left so much room to see the smile lines and texture of her skin. She was not hiding from you.

    At this time, I got blonde streaks in seemingly random parts of my hair. I was living in New York City and working in newsrooms at the time. When I flipped my hair or styled it in a ponytail, different streaks of blonde framed my face. Yes, the highlights were blonde, but the deeper inspiration came from Tina’s effortlessness: a style I could run my fingers through. I was still trying to find ways to be myself in an environment where fashion and style weren’t the focus off camera. The streaks helped me feel that way.

    In 2013, I made a trip to Washington, D.C. to visit the National Museum of African American History and Culture. I picked up a Tina Turner postcard for my grandma; I figured she could put it on her refrigerator. It was in black and white, similar to the coffee table book cover I saw growing up. Now, I see a piece of myself.

    Still, in 2021, the same sentiment or notion is confirmed: Images do matter, and growing up amidst the glory of Tina Turner is not a bad way to live. This week, Tina received a nomination for solo induction to the 2021 Rock & Roll Hall of Fame. But I don’t have to tie Tina’s significance to a single sweeping racial, moral, or cultural moment for her to be an icon. Watching her exist is beauty itself.

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    Life & Love

    Gwyneth Paltrow’s Goop Just Released Its First-Ever Vibrator

    When you think of Goop, Gwyneth Paltrow’s wellness and lifestyle brand, vagina-related products probably come to mind. Maybe you think of the controversial jade egg or the 24-karat gold sex toy, or perhaps the instantly-viral “This Smells Like My Vagina” candle that sold out within hours. Now, this Valentine’s Day, you can get ready to add another Goop item to your repertoire: the brand’s first-ever vibrator.

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    The new $95 Double-Sided Wand Vibrator includes both a ball-shaped wand for rumbly, external vibrations and a slimmer, bendy end for targeted clitoral or internal stimulation. Each side also offers eight pulsating patterns that vary in intensity, adding up to a total of 64 different combos to choose from.

    “With all things sex, we always aim to help eliminate shame and encourage exploration,” Thira Burns, MS, Goop’s director of product development, wellness, told ELLE.com. “We start by listening to experts—and in this case, the best experts are women who are in pursuit of pleasure and seeking more. Through dialogue at past In Goop Health wellness summits, focus groups, and the response to our Netflix show, we learned that there was some simple utility missing from some of the most popular devices.”

    One of those much-appreciated features is the vibrator’s LED battery life display that allows you to see exactly how much charge you have left—and avoid that awkward moment when your vibrator dies just as things are heating up. The Goop team spent 18 months developing the product and intended to create a toy that could be left on your nightstand as an “objet d’art,” if you so choose.

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    The vibrator’s LED battery life display.

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    Burns said the Goop team also wanted the vibrator to be versatile and useful for anyone, regardless of experience level. “The double-sided wand has enough pulsating patterns and unique sensations to bring pleasure to a seasoned vibrator user, but it’s also approachable enough for a first-timer.”

    And though the Valentine’s Day release is a bit on the dot (wink wink), Burns gave a much more democratic answer when I asked why the team decided to release the wand now: “It’s always a good time to help people have more orgasms.” Now that I can vibe with.

    The Double-Sided Wand Vibrator is now available exclusively on goop.com and in select Goop stores.

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    Culture

    Jennifer Lopez Shows Off the Giant Rose Arrangement Alex Rodriguez Gave Her for Valentine’s Day

    Valentine’s Day is an extra-special holiday for Jennifer Lopez and Alex Rodriguez: “February is our special month…,” she J.Lo wrote on Instagram today. “Our anniversary month…We met again for the first time on February 1st… the first time we went out was two days later and since then there hasn’t been a day we haven’t been together or spoken.”

    Alongside her Valentine’s Day message, Lopez shared a video of the giant rose arrangement Rodriguez got her this year. Seriously, you just have to see it for yourselves:

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    “you keep me laughing…,” the rest of the post reads. “I love your wickedly funny sense of humor… and how you always try to make every room you enter a more joyful one… I love you and all you do for me and with me….you are my funny valentine.”

    The couple, who has been engaged since March 2019, but they’ve had to postpone their wedding because of the pandemic.

    “We postponed the wedding twice,” Lopez told ELLE in her February cover-story interview. “We had planned what we really, really wanted to do, [but] I don’t know if we’ll be able to re-create that. We canceled it, and since then we haven’t really talked about it. There’s no rush. We want to do it right when we can do it.” She added: “We just have to wait to see where the world lands.”

    For now, J.Lo can enjoy her absolutely massive collection of Valentine’s Day roses.

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