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How to Send a Truly Thoughtful Thank You

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More than any other type of present, the art of the thank-you gift is all about showing the recipient that time and consideration went into its selection (which is why a re-gift is never a good option). Personalization is essential for handwritten notes, as well. If you take the time to write and express your gratitude—whether it be to a teacher, mentor, or a weekend host—they’ll know the sentiments are really about them, and not just a copy-and-paste job.

When determining how to say thank you beyond the note, one of the first things to decide is whether you want to send the gift or give it in person. Etiquette pros suggest the taking cues from the occasion. A key rule of thumb is to avoid gifts that could end up being a burden to you or the recipient—which is why sending thank you after is never a bad idea.

Stressing over what you pick should be avoided at all costs, so do yourself a solid and arrange a gift ahead of time that’s easy to pick up (or have delivered). Read on below for our suggestions on how to hit the mark with your thank you every time.

Make a smart pick

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Whether you bring them yourself or have them delivered after, flowers are a classic thank-you gift for a reason. They’re cheerful, work in anyone’s space, at any time, and are appropriate for new or old friends. Showing up with blooms is a nice way to give the recipient something to put out immediately (pro tip: offer to pop them in a vase yourself if the host is busy with other guests); on the other hand, sending them afterward as a thank you is a quick way to brighten up a random day.

Edible Arrangements’ new FruitFlowers does chic, ready to go pairings such as handpicked roses and lavender or sunflowers and chrysanthemums that create a thoughtful bounty that anyone will love. They don’t come alone, either, which addresses our second suggestion…

Think about sharing

If you want to bring something, an edible spread is a great option that a recipient (such as a dinner host) can put out for other guests right away. The chocolate-dipped fruit included in the FruitFlowers makes for a perfect dessert that can be shared after a meal and will mix in easily with whatever was already on the menu (a thank you immediately becomes less thoughtful if it throws a wrench in the plans). If you opt to send an arrangement after as a thank you instead, it’ll be a decadent treat to be enjoyed by the recipient with absolutely no pressure to share.

When picking out a thank-you gift for a family or a couple, look for something that’ll please a crowd. The combo of flowers and sweet treats in Edible Arrangements’ FruitFlowers offers something for everyone (plus, who can say no to chocolate-covered strawberries?).

Send something personalized

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A simple thank-you note is standard whenever it’s important to leave a good impression (Think: professional moments like a job recommendation or a generous stay at the home of a new acquaintance). To make your note stand out from the crowd, be sure to get specific about what are you are grateful for and why it meant so much. Don’t rush: Taking your time and really thinking through what you want to convey is key for crafting a note that captures your sincerity. The handwritten note costs nothing, and best practice is to send one even if you brought a hostess gift as a preemptive thank you. Aim to get it out within the week following the occasion.

In short, the art of the thank you is about being thankful—and making sure the other party knows it. Bookmark a crowd-pleasing flowers-and-chocolate gift and invest in a set of cards so you always leave a lasting impression.

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Culture

Demi Lovato and Max Ehrich Reportedly Break Up and Call Off Their Engagement

Demi Lovato has hit the brakes on her whirlwind romance with former soap opera Max Ehrich. Shortly after Ehrich’s old social media posts about wanting to marry Selena Gomez and lusting after other female celebrities went viral, the singer and actor called off their engagement, People reports. The two had been dating for less than five months when Ehrich proposed in July.

“It was a tough decision, but Demi and Max have decided to go their separate ways to focus on their respective careers,” a source told the outlet. “They have respect and love for one another and will always cherish the time they spent together.”

Lovato hasn’t commented on the news yet.

Page Six reported on September 24 that Lovato and Ehrich’s romance was on its last legs and that they were struggling to make it work. “It’s not over yet,” a source close to the couple shared, “but it’s on its way there.”

E! reported on September 16 that those close to Lovato were skeptical of Ehrich’s intentions with him. (Some fans were equally concerned when his old tweets spread, with some calling him a clout chaser.)

“People close to Demi have expressed that they are worried and are hesitant about Max,” the source said.

That source added that Lovato had been hurt by Ehrich’s Selena Gomez drama. Lovato was “really upset” when the Ehrich-Gomez posts surfaced on social media, the source said. “She is head over heels for Max and doesn’t want to be heartbroken. She truly cares about Max and wants to think his intentions are genuine.”

Ehrich deleted his Twitter when his old posts went viral, but fans posted screenshots of Ehrich’s tweets and Instagram comments.

Lovato called the posts “fake” in an Instagram Story statement she shared. “It’s really sad when people FAKE images to put women against each other,” she wrote. “If women have conflict that’s between them NOT YOU. Secondly, don’t y’all have more important shit to write about in 2020???”

Fans also shared a video of an Instagram Live where Ehrich gushed about Gomez and confirmed he has tweeted about his feelings for her.

“I think she’s an extremely, extremely, extremely talented girl, and I’ve actually had a major crush on her since 2010,” he started in the old Instagram Live video. “And I—my teenage self, like, said it in an interview as well so it’s kind of been this ongoing thing but then like obviously I put it out on Twitter, and I didn’t even realize that would catch like—that people would take that like seriously.”

“But yeah, I honestly think Selena Gomez is an extraordinary women,” he continued. “What she stands for charity-wise, just being an activist, she just has a great heart. Her heart is in the right place. She loves Jesus. She loves God. She’s just like, she’s an angel, and I love her, but on top of that, I respect her musically and I want to make music with her. Okay? I want to make a song with her and put out a song.”

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Women's Fashion

5 Reasons We Loved Raf Simons’ Debut at Prada

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Honestly, there was so much to love.

Today, Raf Simons made his long-awaited and highly anticipated debut for Prada at Milan Fashion Week. Simons joins Miuccia Prada as co-creative director at the storied Italian house, and if there were any doubts about what the marriage of each one’s style into the brand would be, the pair stylishly quashed them during today’s presentation. Here are five reasons we loved the show:

1. There was something for everyone

Whether you’re a fan of Simons or of Prada exclusively, the collection had something for everyone. The iconic triangular Prada logo was on full display across the 12-minute long presentation, featuring heavily on both clothing and accessories, nodding to the legacy that Miuccia has built during her time at the helm. The flouncy midi skirts were also reminiscent of Prada’s own personal style. Simons’ influence was also clear in the printed separates, nonchalantly held outerwear and oversized silhouettes.

2. It gave us a chance to really focus on the clothes

A simple yellow backdrop allowed the pair’s designs to really stand out – plus, the way in which the digital presentation was filmed meant there was a much greater focus on the clothing than in others we’ve seen. Tight, lingering shots revealed key details on clothing, and greater detail on accessories for a collection reveal that – although digital – felt incredibly personal to the viewer.

3. All of the models used in the show were first-timers

Every single model that featured in today’s Prada presentation was making their catwalk debut – which is a fairly epic way to start your CV.

4. The shoes

Please see exhibits a, b, c, d and e below.

5. The conversation between Raf and Miuccia that happened at the end of the show

At the conclusion of the presentation, Raf and Miuccia appeared side-by-side (well, six feet apart but you know what we mean) for a 20-minute long conversation. They crowdsourced questions from across the world, which touched on a range of subjects including why they wanted to work together (“I think we’ve always been very interested in each other’s work,” said Simons), how it was to work with another designer (“It is easier, you can share more than you used to share.. and it’s more interesting,” Miuccia noted), whether anything is ‘new’ anymore (“I think fashion in general always hopes for the new and every designer wants to be new but I think when you are in it for a long time, it’s important to be able to refresh your own body of work,” Simons offered adding that the new generation are the ones who will bring the new ideas), if they are doing subtraction or addition (“Both” was the shared answer), what they drink in the morning (coffee for Raf, hot water for Miuccia), as well as what “Prada-ness” means to them, advice for aspiring fashion designers, personal uniforms and more.

Watch the presentation and see the conversation below:

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Beauty

How to Level Up Your Eye Makeup While Wearing a Mask

Lipstick? I don’t know her

I love a lip, I really do. A matte rouge bouche will forever make my spine tingle. (Selena Gomez’s Rare Beauty Lip Souffle in her signature shade Inspire is…possibly the best matte red lipstick I’ve ever tried? And Fenty Beauty Gloss Bomb lives rent free in my heart.) But you know what I love even more? Contributing to thwarting the spread of COVID-19 and protecting our most vulnerable by wearing a non-medical face mask when I’m out in public! That’s chic as hell. So, I’m wearing my new must-have accessory daily while perfecting my smize which means it’s time to trade my love of bold lips for a focus on the eyes.

Legendary makeup artist Laura Mercier is doing the same. “What we’re noticing is that if you don’t have eye makeup, you disappear,” says Mercier, over Zoom, of our current masked-up reality. She says now’s the time for people who don’t normally wear eye makeup to start playing with colour, if they’re so inclined. “I’m going to paint my eyelid with Caviar [Stick Eyeshadows], way more than I used to do, and do lots of mascara to have my eyes be very present because I can’t show lips which, everyone knows, is my favourite thing to do!” Same, LM, same.

She says that experimenting with eye makeup is great practice even for her, a makeup expert with decades of experience. “It’s a great exercise for me because I now have to really make an effort to make up my eyes more,” Mercier says. “It’s all about eyebrows and eyes. Let’s face it.”

Read this next: 16 Mask-Friendly Makeup Products That Won’t Budge (or Smudge)!

Laura Mercier global beauty director Jason Hoffman suggests a bit of tight eyeliner and mascara on curled lashes for those who aren’t super adept at eye makeup. But for folks with more motivation (or time) to play with their peepers, he recommends smudging some creamy eye pencil over a base coat of shadow before applying your go-to smokey eye, or whatever your usual shadow look is. “You do a little bit of eyeshadow or base first and then you sketch out to the inner corners of the eye, smudge it, and then go about your normal shadow routine. This creates a little bit of depth and intensity underneath the powders that you put on top of it. It makes your eye makeup pop without having to change your routine.”

Here are the products you need for more fun face mask eye makeup ideas, because why not just go buck wild?

Sapphire lids

I can’t lie, I’m a kajillion percent more likely to try an eye makeup product if it a) comes in a stick and b) just requires my fingers to apply and blend it. I’m partial to a regal colour like this shimmering sapphire for fall—just swipe on your entire lid with your fingertips, smudge a little and pat yourself on the back!

Laura Mercier Caviar Stick Eye Shadow Stick in Indigo, $38, thebay.com

Extendo cat-eye liner

My friend Anna is an eyeliner aficionado (she could draw—and maybe has drawn?—a perfect cat eye in her sleep) says this liner is *literally* the best she’s ever tried. I drew an impeccable fake moustache on my hand when it arrived on my desk and the pen’s flexible brush tip made it a breeze to use.

Rare Beauty Perfect Strokes Matte Liquid Liner, $25, sephora.com

Metallic merlot

Yes, reddish eye makeup can veer a bit towards pink-eye territory so use a light touch when playing with that corner of the colour wheel. I’ll opt for a metallic finish, like the crimson colours in this Chanel palette, plus a sharp swipe of espresso eyeliner, for a look that says “elegant” not “infected.”

Chanel Les 4 Ombres in Candeure et Provocation, $70, chanel.com

Day-Glo eyeliner

Why yes, I *did* watch Euphoria, how did you know? The colour payoff of these bright NYX liners is insane and will have you feeling like Barbie Ferreira in no time.

NYX Vivid Brights Liner in Vivid Halo, $12, nyxcosmetics.ca

Green mascara

Shine bright like an emerald with this one-two punch from Rihanna’s Fenty Beauty that looks especially fetching on brown-eyed beauties.

Fenty Beauty Full Frontal Mascara in Ivy League, $18, sephora.com, and Snap Shadow Mix and Match Eyeshadow Palette in Money, $33, sephora.com

Read this next: How to Deal with “Maskne”

Copper tops

It had been so long since I’d faked cheekbones with it that I looked at my big, beautiful, expensive bronzer palette the other day and had to reintroduce myself. Give your eyelids the sun-kissed treatment instead with one of these (how did you guess?) impossibly easy-to-master shadow pens.

Maybelline Color Strike Cream to Powder Eye Shadow Pen in Flash, $6.99, maybelline.ca

Read this next: A Definitive Guide to Eyebrow Makeup

Dramatic brows

Has the time ever felt more right for seriously fat, fluffy brows? Brush yours up with a spoolie then fill them in with pencil or powder for shadow brows that’ll make your face forget you ever even had lips.

Gucci Beauty

Gucci Beauty Crayon Définition Sourcils, $42, sephora.com

Exaggerated eyelashes

I am always a fan of applying approximately six to nine coats of mascara but it feels like a particularly essential beauty item right now. This new offering from the queen of glamour gives lashes volume, length *and* lift via a very cool brush—it has a flat side for loading and coating the lashes and a bristly side for combing the mascara through and lifting the lashes from root to tip.

Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk Push Up Lashes Mascara, $34, nordstrom.ca

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Fitness

Customers Love These $20 Amazon Leggings, and Yes, They Have Pockets

Everything is always better with pockets, right? That’s why when we spotted these Iuga High-Waist Yoga Pants With Pockets ($20, originally $30) trending on Amazon, we knew they were good. The popular pairs currently boast over 23,000 reviews and it’s easy to see why customers love them.

The leggings feature a handy side pocket for your phone, making it easy to listen to your favorite tunes while on the go. What makes this pair stand out from others though is the quality. The compression material is thick and holds both you and your items in place. They’re also made with moisture-wicking technology that helps keep you cool on even the sweatiest workouts and have a tummy control waistband for extra support. You can shop them in over 20 shades and a wide range of sizes. Keep reading to shop a few of our favorites, and find your match.

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Culture

From Bernie to Biden: Symone Sanders on Her Historic Career and What’s Next

In ELLE.com‘s monthly series Office Hours, we ask people in powerful positions to take us through their first jobs, worst jobs, and everything in between.

If you know anything about Symone Sanders’ meteoric rise, you’d probably assume she’s an expert at asking for what she wants. As reported in Fortune’s latest “40 under 40”, Sanders was only 25 when she became the national press secretary for Sen. Bernie Sanders’ 2016 presidential campaign.

She then moved on to CNN, working as a commentator and analyst, before being recruited by a handful of 2020 candidates. Ultimately, she chose Joe Biden, becoming one of his senior advisors, the youngest in his “inner circle” and his highest-ranking Black staffer. Sanders isn’t afraid to tackle protestors, call out rude guests, be Baited—or speak up when she discovered she was being left out of a daily call for top Biden strategists.

But don’t be mistaken. “It is not what I want,” Sanders explains. “It is what I’ve worked for.”

Below, the now 30-year-old, reflects on that work, including the job she’d never want to do again and the career advice that changed her life.

My very first job

It was at Time Out Foods in Omaha, Nebraska, and I was a cashier. Time Out is this local, Black-owned restaurant, and they serve the absolute best fried chicken and dirty rice I have ever had. Working that job is what let me know I needed to get good grades because I hate to mop.

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The job I’d never want to do again

I interned at a law firm while I was in college. Part of my job was Bates stamping, and it was the most boring thing I have ever done in my life. That’s when I realized the firm life was really not for me, and perhaps I didn’t want to go to law school and be an attorney and become a judge.

My true dream job

My actual dream job would be to either have my own show or be one of the co-hosts on The View. I think the people on The View—Joy Behar, Whoopi, Sunny Hostin, and company—they have the coolest jobs in America.

The worst career advice I’ve ever received

The worse career advice I think I ever got was someone telling me not to take the Sanders press secretary job in 2015. They said it would ruin my career, I would be branded for life, and I would never be able to get another job.

What my work/life balance looks like

In the current campaign, there is some semblance of work-life balance because I’m at home with my partner all day long. We have dinner every night. I woke up this morning, and I cleaned the kitchen. Those are things that I was not doing seven months ago, let alone things I’d be doing 50 days out from election day, if we weren’t all working from home. Part of it is really carving out time, so when we are having dinner I do not take phone calls. I will probably answer some emails. If people text me, I will text back, but I don’t take phone calls. There are days where I just need to leave the house, so I will do a mobile order at Starbucks. I will take two meetings in the car just so I can get a change of scenery. Those are the ways that I find sanity in this crazy work-from-home world.

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A lesson I learned the hard way

When I worked for Senator Sanders, I remember we had a press conference in Baltimore. Earlier that day, Senator Sanders went on a walking tour of Freddie Gray’s neighborhood. Freddie Gray was a gentleman who died in police custody in Baltimore. After the tour, I went out to brief the reporters. I made a joke—it was not a good joke—and said, “Guys, we’re in Baltimore today, so can you please try to ask some questions about Baltimore, and not make all your questions about ISIS?” Because it was at the time where people were asking Senator Sanders about ISIS a lot.

As soon as I walk out of the room, a couple of the reporters tweet that Bernie Sanders’ press secretary just told us not to ask about ISIS. It was so terrible. It was blowing up. Senator Sanders had to go out there and do this press conference, and of course that was the first question. I just slinked to the back of the room. The next day, I saw Senator Sanders in our campaign office, and he came over to me, and I’m like, I’m definitely getting in trouble. He said, “I think you’ve learned your lesson.” I said, “I think I have, sir. I don’t have any jokes for the reporters, not one joke, and I don’t have any sarcasm.” He said, “Okay. All right.” But I was really devastated. What I learned is that everything you say, especially in the role of a press secretary or a communications person, in the presence of reporters without some caveats is, in fact, reportable. We have to be sharp, and when I am not sharp, I have the potential to make my principal look bad, and if I’m doing that, I’m not doing my job.

How I know when to ask for more

I realized that if I would like the things I believed I had worked for, I had to ask for them because no one is just going to give them to me. If you have done the work, if you are capable, and you have earned what it is that you are asking for, you should feel emboldened and empowered to ask for it. I didn’t ask to be the press secretary for Senator Sanders in 2015 and then not know how to write a press release or pitch reporters. It would have been very problematic if I didn’t know how to do the job. You don’t ask to get into a meeting and then never have anything to contribute. If we are asking for the things that we believe we’ve worked for, that we believe we deserve, we have to be able to perform when we get there.

Why I always take the meeting

The best career advice I got was someone encouraging me to sit down with the vice president’s then-campaign manager, Greg Schultz, and then the vice president. Joe Biden has been in public office for 47 years. I incorrectly assumed there was no space for me in his orbit. Getting to know folks who have worked for the vice president, getting to know the vice president and Dr. Biden personally, just really being welcomed into the Biden family, that’s what has been most amazing about this experience.

This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity.

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Issa Rae Is Now the Co-Owner and Face of Sienna Naturals

To re-launch a brand with bigger and better products is one thing. But to return to the game with improved offerings and a big celebrity name is a feat very few beauty brands can brag about, especially when the said celebrity is none other than Issa Rae.

Announced today, Rae will serve as the face of the Sienna Naturals and join founder Hannah Diop as co-owner of the brand. Rae, who regularly showcases the versatility of natural hair in her HBO series Insecure, is a longtime friend of Diop’s and admired Diop’s dedication to creating a clean beauty brand for Black women.

“I’ve known Hannah for a long time, and I got to see the brand evolve from her home. It’s expanded so much beyond that. The care and the research that has gone into this natural, safe, healthy brand, I knew that I wanted to be involved,” she explained in a statement. “We get coerced into manipulating our hair into styles not right for us, or using damaging products. I have an opportunity to make hair care digestible via my sense of humor, my openness to my own hair struggle journey.”

Sienna Naturals, the eco-conscious natural hair brand beloved for its toxic-free hair care products is returning with larger product sizes, accessible price points, and updated packaging. What’s more, the brand will also introduce Salon in a Box, which is packed with everything you need to make your wash day as seamless as possible.

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“I have always admired Issa’s ability to bring a spark and light into a project. Issa is a trailblazer and stays true to her roots and dedication to Black creators. Her looks are authentic and she fully embraces all styles you can accomplish with textured hair,” Diop, founder/CEO of Sienna Naturals, said. “Sienna Naturals is not a company that is telling you how to wear your hair. We believe in empowering our customers to be who they really are and have a product that supports them. Issa’s ever-changing style embodies the brand’s purpose and we can not wait to take this next step with her.”

Sign up for the pre-launch waitlist and updates on future Sienna Natural launches here.

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Women's Fashion

Watch the BOSS Spring 2021 Show Live From Milan Fashion Week Here

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The show is taking place at 8am ET on September 25.

Milan Fashion Week is only one day in to its Spring 2021 season and is already generating plenty of buzz. From Silvia Venturini Fendi’s last collection for Fendi to Raf Simons and Miuccia Prada’s debut collection together at Prada, it’s been an action-packed first 24 hours in the Italian city. And that excitement is slated to continue tomorrow as Hugo Boss presents its BOSS Spring 2021 collection.

The brand – which recently launched its Canadian e-commerce site – has shared very little about what to expect from the show, save for the fact that the men’s and women’s collections have been inspired by the floral work from British artist William Farr. What we do know is that the show will take place at the Palazzo del Senato in Milan, with a few socially distanced guests in attendance. The brand shared with FASHION that the space will be decorated with 26 trees, and that all of those trees will be donated to the City of Milan once the show has ended in support of the city’s initiative to plant three million trees by the year 2030 to help fight climate change.

The brand shares a long history with the Italian city, as Ingo Wilts, chief brand officer for Hugo Boss, explained in an earlier press release. “The city of Milan is very close to our hearts as a brand, particularly as the first BOSS womenswear collection was revealed here exactly 20 years ago. We are excited to continue the BOSS story in Italy’s fashion capital, with this live event that will bring together physical and digital elements of the runway experience in a unique way.”

You can catch all of the action live from the BOSS Spring 2021 runway tomorrow, September 25, as it happens via our livestream below. The show begins at 8am ET – so grab your coffee and get cozy in your front row seat.

Want more from Milan Fashion Week? Click here to check out the best street style looks from the city (so far).

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Fitness

“Everyone’s Story Matters” — Lady Gaga Discusses Mental Health and the Power of Kindness

Your mental health matters. This statement might seem obvious to some, but Lady Gaga and the Born This Way Foundation have created a community where those who struggle with their mental health can turn for support any day and any time. During an exclusive discussion about her new book Channel Kindness: Stories of Kindness and Community, Gaga sat down with her mother Cynthia Bissett Germanotta and three of the book’s young authors — Hanna Atkinson, Jessica Zhang, and Terrius Harris — to discuss the importance of acknowledging mental health struggles and the power of kindness in helping yourself and others. “I believe that everyone’s story matters and that we should listen to each other and communicate,” Gaga said.

“These are young people coming together as a family, as a global community and saying, ‘We can be kind. We can be kind together and we can tell our stories.'”

A mental health study published by the CDC on Aug. 14 shows that 25.5 percent of participants ages 18-24 had seriously considered suicide in the past 30 days. This alarming statistic gives some insight into the often unrecognized pain and internal suffering that so many people are facing as a result of varying life circumstances. During the discussion about the book, Gaga touched on the importance of finding role models beyond the pages of a book and taking the time to be there for those around you who have no one else to turn to.

“Some people don’t have parents that can hear what you’re saying,” she said. “They don’t have parents that are willing to listen. Some people don’t have parents at all. So I encourage young people to build families in their local community, and I encourage them to celebrate their stories by sharing it with each other and creating a community, creating a culture around you where you can say, ‘Hey, this is what I’m going through. What have you been through?'”

From a parent’s perspective, Germanotta added that it’s important to listen without judgement and tell your children about your own struggles, instead of putting up a facade and pretending everything is all right. “I think sitting down and starting to model a healthy conversation — listening, understanding without judgement — and just acknowledging that you also have had your own struggles is a good beginning,” she said.

Gaga went on to add that fostering authentic relationships with your friends is the key to creating a support system where everyone benefits from each other’s help. It’s important to recognize the power you have in helping others and in acknowledging your own emotions, especially those that make you feel uncomfortable. Whether you enjoy yoga, meditation, art, or reading, find the skill that puts your mind at ease and use that to guide you on your journey to taking better care of your mental health.

“It’s good to make sure that you reward yourself for every single thing that you do, because you’re brave every day just for taking a breath, but you’re braver when you try a little harder,” Gaga said. “This is an act of not just love to the world, but this is an act of love to yourself, and you can be your own family and you can create your own family.”

If you or a loved one are experiencing suicidal ideation or are at risk, the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline has several resources and a 24/7 lifeline at 1-800-273-8255.

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Gigi Hadid Has Given Birth to Her and Zayn Malik’s First Baby Girl

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Gigi Hadid and Zayn Malik’s baby girl has arrived. The 25-year-old model gave birth to the couple’s first child, Malik announced on his Twitter, sharing a photo of his daughter’s hand in his.

“Our baby girl is here, healthy & beautiful,” he tweeted, “to try put into words how i am feeling right now would be an impossible task. The love i feel for this tiny human is beyond my understanding. Grateful to know her, proud to call her mine, & thankful for the life we will have together x”

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TMZ broke news of Hadid’s pregnancy in late April, prompting Hadid to confirm the reports during a Tonight Show interview two days later. Her mother said around the same time that Hadid was due in September. Hadid confirmed on Twitter on September 12 that her daughter was late, responding to a still that a fan shared from The Princess Diaries where Queen Clarisse says, “A queen is never late. Everyone else is simply early.” The fan wrote, “Gigi’s daughter said:” Hadid responded with three laugh emojis and two pink hearts.

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Hadid told Tonight Show host Jimmy Fallon that “obviously, you know, we wish we could’ve announced it on our own terms, but we’re very excited and happy and grateful for everyone’s well wishes and support so…”

Her mother Yolanda Hadid said that she was “still shocked our little secret got leaked to the press. Of course we are so excited. I’m excited to become Oma in September, especially after I lost my mom so recently. But this is the beauty of life, one soul leaves us, and a new one comes in. We feel very blessed.”

Before Hadid’s pregnancy was revealed, the model was candid about her hopes to become a mother someday. During an interview with i-D magazine published in February, the model spoke about her future ambitions in the fashion industry. Hadid said, “I think that as I get older… well one day I’ll start a family and I don’t know if I will always be modeling. I love the creative side of fashion, it’s so fulfilling. The people I work with make me so happy, I’m so lucky to be around them. But who knows? Maybe I’ll take up full time cooking!”

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The Biggest Trends of Spring 2021 So Far

Just because fashion month went digital this season doesn’t mean there aren’t trends to follow. Fresh from the showrooms and runways of designers like Christopher Kane, Sandy Liang, and more, we witnessed how quarantine is directly affecting spring’s sartorial landscape—because who knows how long lockdown will last, anyway.

Designers spoke to the moment by addressing our quarantine needs with elevated sweatpants, mirroring our frazzled mindsets with mismatched prints, and predicting a joyful spring of ’00s clubwear. Read on for the most relatable trends of the season.


Chaotic Clashing

Our headspace is in a constant state of disarray, which seemed to be the inspiration behind many collections this spring. It’s a mixed bag of loud prints, colors, textiles, and silhouettes clashing together in seamless harmony. But it’s not just symbolic. Hilary Taymour of Collina Strada used this moment to create a bond between a frenzied fashion show coupled with the state of our union, collaborating with artists who address the issues of Black lives and police brutality.


Jersey Girl

Pants? We don’t know her. And according to the sweat suits spotted at Tom Ford and Rodarte, we barely need real ones. May elastic waistbands live on.


’00s Shine

“I miss dancing” is a phrase exchanged all too often these days, even by those who previously adhered to a 9PM curfew. If club quar is calling your name, look to indie designers like Peter Do and Christian Cowan who incorporated 2000s-era high-shine fabrics reminiscent of Girlfriends. Fingers crossed that by the time spring rolls around, we’ll actually be able to go out again.


Bras as Tops

We’ve all but retired our underwires, but Christian Siriano, Tibi, and Jacquemus are convincing us that bras work as a standalone item (for the courageous, that is). They made the case for ultra crop tops as outerwear, paired with matching maxis, menswear-inspired suits, and more.


Thongs on View

I see London, I see France, I see Sandy Liang’s underpants. To compliment bras as tops, brands gave the lower half’s underpinning its own spotlight. Much to the joy of Manny Santos, this revealing trend saw G-string details at Laquan Smith and built-in thongs on skirts. It leaves nothing to the imagination, and we’re fine with that.

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8 UA Pieces I Have My Eyes On For a Sporty Weekend Away

I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s planning some fall weekend escapes. Most of my fall weekend getaways include some sort of fitness element. Between a hike, a jog, or a long stroll around the city, I almost always have something planned that will have me breaking a sweat.

This fall, I’m refusing to sacrifice style for my weekend escape. These eight pieces from Under Armour maintain a sporty street style and are prepped to handle the work I’m about to put in. Take a peek at the eight pieces I’m adding to my shopping list for my next sporty weekend away.

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Watchmen Season 2: Everything We Know

Spoilers for Watchmen season 1, ahead.

When HBO’s Watchmen premiered last fall, it changed the game for what’s possible in the superhero genre. It shifted the Cold War setting of Alan Moore and Dave Gibbon’s ’80s comic series to a nine-episode examination of race in America. It introduced us to Regina King’s masked vigilante, Sister Night, who lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma 100 years after the Black Wall Street massacre of 1921. Yesterday, Watchmen became the most Emmy-nominated show of the year with 26 nods.

But Watchmen was nominated in the Limited Series categories and is not set to return for another season. While Doctor Manhattan’s motto, “Nothing ever ends,” may not apply to the series itself, it does ring true with speculation about a second season. Basically, there’s been a whole lot of chatter from creator Damon Lindelof about season 2 with no concrete answers to emerge from it. Ahead, everything we know about a mythical second season and King’s involvement.

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Watchmen was originally conceived as only one season.

Ahead of the show’s premiere last October, Lindelof and a few cast members appeared at Comic-Con to talk about Watchmen. When asked about future seasons, the creator was purposefully vague. “We want to see how it’s received by you guys,” Lindelof coyly said, per The Hollywood Reporter. “If the show comes out there and the conversation surrounding the show suggests you’re hungry for more, we’ll certainly take that into consideration. We want to deliver nine episodes that deliver a complete and total amazing story.”

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But by the time the finale was airing in December, Lindelof had reversed course a bit. “I am deeply, profoundly appreciative for how well received the season has been up until now, and I don’t want to feel like I’m ungrateful, but I still don’t have any inclination whatsoever to continue the story,” he told Variety. “And that is largely and almost exclusively based on the fact that I don’t have an idea. If I’m going to be involved in any more Watchmen, I should be able to answer the questions, why, and why now, and the answers to those questions shouldn’t be, ‘Well because that’s what you do, because the first one was good.'”

To add even more confusion to the mix, Lindelof added, “I’m not saying there shouldn’t be a second season of Watchmen, and I’m not even saying that that season shouldn’t feature some of the characters in this season of Watchmen. I just don’t know what it should be.”

Around the same time, Lindelof offered a very lengthy explanation to Entertainment Weekly regarding his feelings about continuing. In summary, he said, “I can’t say that there will definitely not be a second season and I can’t say there definitely will be. That’s kind of where my head’s at.”

King has remained open to a second season—if Lindelof is on board, too.

The series’ star has said she would mask up as police detective Sister Night (Angela Abar by day) once more. However, her involvement is contingent on Lindelof returning as showrunner. “I don’t know,” she last told Reese Witherspoon during a virtual Variety interview. “Honestly, I feel like I think HBO would want it back in a heartbeat, but if Damon Lindelof doesn’t see an entry point for Season 2, I think that the possibilities are infinite. But I feel that if Damon doesn’t see it, then it’s going to be a no for me.”

Sources told Entertainment Weekly that although Watchmen‘s writers have since moved on to other projects, the actors signed deals with HBO for multiple seasons. But King has stuck to her guns regarding her return. “I couldn’t even begin to speak on that,” she told The Hollywood Reporter about a second season. “All I can say is if season 2 came back, I would want it to be comparable to season 1. That sounds like a tall hill to climb!”

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The finale is open-ended.

The (final?) episode of Watchmen, “See How They Fly” doesn’t end so much with a cliffhanger, as an ambiguous conclusion. Angela is reeling after the death of her husband, Doctor Manhattan (Yahya Abdul-Mateen II). She finds a common chicken egg that her late husband may or may not have transferred his powers to. After consuming the egg, she’s about to step out into her swimming pool to test whether or not she’s inherited any of Doctor Manhattan’s powers (including walking on water). Viewers are given one final shot of her foot poised to enter the water before the screen cuts to black.

As for where the show would go from there, Lindelof is keeping tight-lipped. “We chose to cut to black where and when we did for a very specific reason that I don’t really want to interrogate in any real way,” he told Vanity Fair. He later said, “These nine episodes were planned to stand alone and that doesn’t exclude the possibility that there will be more Watchmen.” Lindelof told the outlet that while he’s “super protective of this material,” he also said Watchmen was “never” his and invited other creators to take a crack at the show.

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In many ways, the ambiguous nature to the show’s ending is what people loved about it. As ELLE.com’s R. Eric Thomas wrote, “To build a story that reveals itself, in the final moments of its burlesque, to be just the beginning, is both an artistic choice and a theoretical offer. The currency in the incomplete payment of the finale’s cut to black isn’t narrative, but structural. The show’s creators have built a world where things that are wrong in ours are set right, but at the end they run into the hard limit of reality. And instead of saying that explicitly, they let us experience it as Angela’s foot approaches the pool, which is so much more electrifying. Watchmen is a triumph of storytelling that embraces one of the core ideas of burlesque: You can accomplish everything you need to with just a glimpse of ankle.”

Watchmen could morph into an anthology series.

While a follow-up season with Angela and co. may not be in the cards, a second installment could be. HBO programming chief Casey Bloys told USA Today that the show could become an anthology series. “It’s really in Damon’s thinking about what he wants to do,” Bloys explained. “If there’s an idea that excited him about another season, another installment, maybe like a Fargo, True Detective [anthology] take on it, or if he wants to do something different altogether. We’re very proud of Watchmen, but what I’m most interested in what Damon wants to do.”

For his part, Lindelof told USA Today he’s “given [his] blessing” to HBO about continuing the show without him. Although Bloys said, “It would be hard to imagine doing it without Damon involved in some way.”

He’s said a woman or person of color should helm Watchmen next.

Perhaps frustrated with exhaustive season 2 rumors, Lindelof has said he welcomes other voices to continue the superhero series. “I issue this invitation to anyone out there: If you have an idea, figure out a way to pitch it,” he told Collider.com in July, adding, “But probably not to me. Watchmen is not mine. It’s ours. And I want to see how someone else interprets this incredible story.”

When asked by Vulture about who should be in charge of the next iteration, he replied:

“I would love to see someone who is not a white dude taking a shot at Watchmen—a woman or a person of color or both. Most of the good ideas that ended up in this season did not come from a white dude.”

During the Collider interview, Lindelof tossed this last chestnut to the masses, stoking speculation once more:

“I think you and I both know there’s going to be more Watchmen. That’s going to happen. And whether or not the individuals who decide that they want there to be more Watchmen pick this story up where it left off or they do an entirely different kind of Watchmen story, that’s up to them. But I am seeing a lot of people who respond to the show are catalyzed and interested in what the world would look like if it were being reshaped by Angela Abar. I don’t have a good answer to that question, but that’s why it cut to black when it did [Laughs].”

We may never have a straight answer regarding season 2, but we’ll always have that beloved first installment. (And perhaps a handful of Emmys after Sept. 20)

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    Gucci is Collaborating With The North Face

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    Despite announcing its departure from a traditional fashion show calendar, Gucci is still making headlines in the middle of fashion month. With a short video clip posted to Instagram and TikTok, the Italian house has announced that a collaboration with The North Face is underway. The teaser features both brands’ logos on a flag pitched on a summit. Let the literal and figurative foghorn sound, because this is a collaboration we didn’t know we needed.

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    While The North Face is familiar with high fashion partnerships—they’ve previously worked with Supreme, Sacai and MM6 Margiela, to name a few—this marks Gucci’s first collab under Alessandro Michele’s tenure. Gucci has taken on its own variation of hiking boots in the past, so it only makes sense for them to pull directly from the source with the outdoor brand. It’s peak gorpcore, alps-related pun intended.

    The North Face is known for its lifelong efforts in reducing its carbon footprint, so this alliance falls in line with Gucci’s recent steps toward a cleaner future. In June, Gucci launched Off the Grid, its first sustainable collection made with recycled, organic, and bio-based materials. It’s also a part of Circular Lines, the brand’s ongoing mission to create a circular production line that decreases the amount of waste introduced into the ecosystem by reimplementing it back into their supply chain.

    Details about what this collaboration looks like or when it drops is still unknown, but Gucci’s rep stated that “Gucci and The North Face confirm that they will be bringing a collaboration to life in the coming months that celebrates the rich heritage of both brands.”

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    How Inclusive Stylist is Changing Representation Behind the Scenes

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    “It’s a way for people emerging in the industry to know that they’re not alone.”

    While there’s been a bigger push in recent years for more diversity in front of the camera, the people working as part of the teams who conceive of and create fashion, film and television content are still disproportionately white and male.

    This is where Inclusive Stylist, a mentorship-centric program launched by Toronto-based creatives Vanessa Magic and Georgia Groom, is poised to be a true change-maker. The idea for the initiative was prompted by the duo’s experiences of being on set and recognizing the lack of BIPOC individuals in their crews.

    “A few years ago, I was sitting on set one day and I looked around, and the only person of colour was the talent,” recalls Groom. “I don’t know if [Vannessa and I] had spoken about it to each other at that point, but it was something we’d both noticed and it became more and more obvious.”

    After a phone call between the collaborators–who both have impressive resumes and industry accolades across the spheres of editorial, commercial, film and television work–to discuss this pervasive inequality, Inclusive Stylist came to be.

    Its primary focus is to enlighten, connect and empower emerging creatives who are seeking to gain access into the notoriously nepotistic world of image-making. “When I started, I wasn’t afforded a lot of chances,” says Magic about her years as a fledgling costume designer. “One opportunity that I had was from me asking someone to take a chance on me, and them saying yes. I think when you’re starting in the industry, you’re met with a lot of resistance.”

    To combat the prevalence of the closed doors many people encounter when trying to make a name for themselves in creative settings, Inclusive Stylist began offering access to a digital speaker series this summer which included talents like stylists Bobby Bowen, Nadia Pizzimenti, Cynthia Florek, Michelle Lyte, Nicole Manek and Tricia Hall; founder of Indigenous Fashion Week Toronto, Sage Paul; and award-winning costume designer, Gersha Hall.

    The aim of the Mini Mentor programming was to highlight the idea that, “If you can see it, you can be it,” as Groom says. It’s this principle that guides the content and networking opportunities she and Magic continue to develop such as showcasing the work of their mentees like Eyob Desalgne, Charlene Akuamoah and Sanatanae Luzige on social media, and helping mentees to meet with and learn from more established creatives. These aspects are especially crucial during quarantine, notes Magic, since such experiences aren’t as accessible offline at the present moment.

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    In addition to equipping mentees with relevant skills and connections, Magic notes that there are elements of systemic racism that they must be attuned to in order to be emotionally and mentally prepared for work. “Being a Black stylist, I worry about being followed in the mall, or being asked for ID if I’m using someone else’s credit card for production purchases,” she says. “These are things other people don’t have to think about.”

    Though Inclusive Stylist was born from Magic and Groom’s disappointment in their industry, they clarify that its existence is meant to be a positive solution to a dire issue. “We want to call people in instead of calling them out,” says Magic. “[People] have to acknowledge things were messed up, and it has to change.” But to this end, she rightly adds that privilege has allowed these inequitable systems to keep operating. “It’s always marginalized people helping marginalized people get ahead,” she says. “It’s never the people at the top of the system”, who Groom notes, are typically white men.

    “And you have to start at the top,” Groom goes on, flagging that even if modelling agencies brought more models of colour on to their boards, film unions vetted more POC, and stylist agencies represented a more diverse roster of talent, the power of the client and their dictates are going to continue to be difficult to change without those who’ve been given access into creative spaces speaking up.

    One step in driving the fashion, film and television industries–and every other industry, too–toward equilibrium is for those presently active in them to be cognizant of and educated about unfairness, so they’re more prepared to do something about it. “If you’re someone benefitting from the current system, you have to think, what can I do to make this more equitable?” says Groom. And she adds that we must banish the notion that someone else’s gain is another’s loss to actually make equality a reality. “If it’s fair for all of us, it doesn’t mean it’s unfair to you.”

    It’s this idea that’s at the core of Inclusive Stylist’s efforts, and Magic points to the importance of communal thinking in how we approach making sets a place where everyone present feels welcomed and valued. “It’s a way for people emerging in the industry to know that they’re not alone, and that there’s a community behind them and it wants to see them succeed.”

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    The Playbook: José Mourinho Isn’t Afraid of a Public Feud, but His Players Stand by Him

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    Soccer coach José Mourinho is one of five people featured in The Playbook, a new docuseries on Netflix profiling some of the top coaches across the sports world. As viewers learn in the documentary, Mourinho is no stranger to controversy. He’s been in public feuds with opposing coaches, game officials, and even his own players — so, what do those players have to say about him? Not much, at least not in public, as it turns out.

    One of the biggest clashes Mourinho has had is in his current role as manager of the Tottenham Hotspur Football Club. As recently as this past June, Tottenham midfielder Tanguy Ndombele reportedly told Mourinho he never wanted to play for him again, according to ESPN. The conflict, which was only the latest in months of arguments between the two, reportedly erupted over Ndombele’s training and readiness after being subject to coronavirus lockdown measures during the first half of the year in the UK. The conflict does seem to be on the back burner for now, with Mourinho telling the Daily Mail that “he [Ndombele] is training very well.” Ndombele, for his part, has remained quiet about the reported feud.

    Tottenham’s most recently signed player, Sergio Reguilón, had only positive things to say about Mourinho, calling him a “world-class manager,” according to the Evening Standard. Although Mourinho has had no qualms speaking publicly about his players — and criticizing them publicly — the reverse isn’t true: it’s rare to hear his players publicly respond in the media.

    Mourinho has been courting controversy as far back as 2005, when he accused an opposing coach and a referee of bias. He’s been fined and suspended a number of times over the last 15 years, for everything from inappropriate meetings with transfer players to incendiary comments made about other people in the soccer world. More recently, in 2018, he feuded with Antonio Conte, the Chelsea coach, claiming that Conte had “humiliated” him and his Manchester United team, as the BBC reported at the time. Despite these feuds, he remains something of a soccer legend as one of the most decorated managers ever.

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    Fiber Artists Are Honoring Ruth Bader Ginsburg With Lace Collars

    When news of Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s passing broke last week, thousands of mourners descended on courthouses across the country to lay flowers and photographs at their steps. Online, the fiber art community mourned RBG through that symbol she was so famous for: the lace collar.

    After their appointments, Ginsburg and Justice Sandra Day O’Connor began wearing the lace “jabot,” worn by judges across Europe and Australia, to contrast with the male justices on the court, who showed a bit of tie through their robes. Today, the other female justices on the court—Elena Kagan and Sonia Sotomayor—have taken to wearing simple collars with their robes, but Ginsburg stood out with her diverse collection of collars. After her death, patterns for “dissent collars” multiplied on the crafting website Ravelry and artists began sharing their quilted and knit tribute pieces on Instagram.

    In 2014, Ruth Bader Ginsburg, who had only recently been nicknamed the Notorious RBG, shared her lace collar collection with Katie Couric. In the interview, Ginsburg showed off her dissent and majority opinion collars, and other favorites from around the world. That’s when many fans realized that RBG’s collars not only defined her fashion, but also allowed her to send subtle messages.

    The lace community was especially moved by Ginsburg’s love of collars.

    “It is so special and so moving for the lace community to have someone in a prestigious role like Justice Ginsburg still embrace collar wearing and lace collars as a symbol of her power and femininity,” said Elena Kanagy-Loux, a collections specialist at the Metropolitan Museum’s Antonio Ratti Textile Center and founder of the Brooklyn Lace Guild.

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    Lace was not always a feminine accessory—for many centuries it was completely gender neutral—but it was always made mostly by women.

    “We do think of the long-suffering lacemaker,” women who worked long hours at low wages, but “the reality was that for many women this was much better paying and much less backbreaking than farm labor, for example,” said Kanagy-Loux.

    But because lace production required so many hours of work, manufacturers had to underpay women in order for buyers to be able to afford anything. While male embroiderers organized into guilds, “men in guilds were threatened by having women’s labor entering the workforce in a legitimate way so they actually worked to fight and prevent women from entering guilds and from organizing on their own.”

    Many fiber artists honoring RBG today are doing so with antique lace that they’ve inherited—like Diana Weymar.

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    When Weymar heard news of RBG’s passing, she picked up her needle and thread and embroidered through her grief. As the curator behind The Tiny Pricks Project, a project protesting Donald Trump’s presidency by stitching his words onto antique textiles, Weymar began sharing her RBG textiles to the page’s Instagram. As she shared embroidered collars and jabots, other participants in The Tiny Pricks Project began sending in handkerchiefs and cross-stitch.

    “With Ruth Bader Ginsburg you have this feminist who’s feminine,” said Weymar. Something about that “allows people now to bring out their lacy stuff and embroider,” to “embrace this part of their history because they’re celebrating someone who changed history for women.”

    Weymar herself inherited a bag of lace from her grandparents and realized that many women had similar collections of handed-down textiles.

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    “That textile’s made by someone, under some circumstance, for some reason, and how you decide to use it, especially for protest, is a political act,” said Weymar. “What is the connection to our past and to women of our past? How do they fortify and inspire us? This isn’t only a female practice, but women are memory makers. They preserve a lot of domestic history–partly because that was one of the few ways they could tell stories.”

    In contrast to these traditional lace collars, some artists like Roxana Geffen have honored RBG by paying tribute to her weighty, gem-studded dissent collar.

    The day after the 2016 election, Roxana Geffen was feeling, “like so many other people, just completely devastated.” Then she saw a headline reading “Justice Ginsburg Wears ‘Dissent’ Collar Following Contentious Election.” At once, she thought it was both a brilliant and subtle gesture, like a “secret message to those of us who needed it.”

    In response, Geffen started making her own dissent collars.

    I started “cobbling them together with materials that I had on hand in my studio, often while I was listening to the news and feeling enraged and frustrated,” she said. At the time, Geffen felt like her collars were “a gesture of how powerless I felt because I was like, ‘I’m no RBG, I’m just an artist.” But as she began posting photographs of the collars to Instagram, people started responding saying they found them empowering.

    “That textile’s made by someone, under some circumstance, for some reason, and how you decide to use it, especially for protest, is a political act.”

    Geffen ended up making 24 collars, some woven others and macraméd or embroidered. After the news of Justice Ginsburg’s passing broke, Geffen decided to auction off the collars to raise funds for the ACLU, where Justice Ginsburg spent her formative years as an attorney fighting for women’s rights.

    Kanagy-Loux expects that more tribute collars will only continue to emerge in the coming months—after all, lacework can take months to years to complete. In the meantime, Geffen says “it’s been nice to feel a moment of coming together, especially among women, after her death. I feel like there’s been a moment of solidarity.”

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    What to Do If You Decide to Get Off Hormonal Birth Control

    As adults, we often have to make decisions that ultimately sacrifice a personal want. For instance, we want to stay up and finish binging Selling Sunset, but we must turn off the tele for a decent night’s sleep.

    On a more serious note, we may want clear skin, but hindering a potential pregnancy often takes precedent. If you’re on birth control, you’ve heard about or maybe even experienced acne as a side effect of taking hormones on a daily basis. You also gamble with flare-ups when you decide to remove contraception altogether. Oftentimes, it feels like we must be plagued with one issue in order to solve another. But, if you’ve decided it’s time to try for a baby, or you just want to give your body a hormonal break, expect a 6-12 month transition for your body after getting off contraception like the pill or an IUD.

    According to the Centers for Disease Control, 22.9% of women ages 15-49 are on birth control via the pill, IUDs or injections. Birth control has been prescribed for a variety of reasons outside of its intended use (to prevent pregnancy): to regulate heavy menstrual bleeding and disorders like polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) and premenstrual dysphoric disorder, and to help with acne.

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    More and more doctors and dermatologists are prescribing the pill specifically for hormonal breakouts. “It’s one of the most common things in dermatology that we’re prescribing right now, especially to teenagers and people in their early 20s to treat their acne,” explains Dr. Nancy Samolitis, board-certified dermatologist and co-founder of Facile Dermatology + Boutique in Los Angeles. “We’re trying to avoid using antibiotics, which used to be the gold standard (in acne reduction). Unfortunately, when you take antibiotics you have to be on them for a very long time. Our other option is Accutane. Accutane is a great drug and it works, but not everybody is a candidate,” she said.

    Birth control can be an agent for breakouts or can be used to solve them; this is pretty common knowledge among users. However, one side effect of hormonal contraception that I wasn’t privy to when I first got on it was hyperpigmentation. I was taking the pill (Yaz, which contains both estrogen and progesterone) for several years before I was informed by esthetician Renée Rouleau that I had melasma. The dark spots I had on my face, present on my forehead, cheeks, and a little on my upper lip, were in fact not remnants of self-tanner I hadn’t scrubbed off. (To be young and naive.) It was hyperpigmentation resulting from the hormones I was taking from oral contraception.

    When I decided to get off Yaz, one of the welcomed byproducts was that my melasma almost disappeared. With a few laser facials and the use of hydroquinone, an ingredient that lightens the skin, one would be hard pressed to discover I ever experienced it. But another part of the aftermath was that my skin broke out.

    Making sure I am in control of my body is a priority — even as a diehard skin care junkie. Getting off the pill was a smart decision for me at the time, and one I was privileged to make without worrying about health issues. Getting an IUD four years later was also the intelligent thing to do, as I started a new relationship. But as I start to think about the future, like many women, I’ve been considering how long being on hormonal birth control is too long, and what will happen to both my body and my skin once I decide to give it up, for whatever reason that may be.

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    Our body has to adapt to receiving the hormones that will stimulate ovulation again. “Most hormonal contraception interferes with the signals sent from the pituitary gland (brain) to prevent ovulation, or release of an egg from the ovaries each month,” said Dr. Lucky Sekhon, Board certified OBGYN, Reproductive Endocrinologist and Infertility Specialist.

    “When stopping these hormones, it can sometimes take the brain a few cycles to ‘wake up’ and begin to pump out the necessary hormones that stimulate the ovaries and drive the process of ovulation,” said Sekhon. Once ovulation normalizes, you will experience your period again (if you were taking a pill to continuously skip your period) and will experience symptoms like premenstrual syndrome which includes “heightened depression/anxiety in the week leading up to menstruation, breast soreness after ovulation, an increase in cervical mucus around the time of ovulation, and skin changes such as acne leading up to menstruation,” according to Dr. Sekhon.

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    And what can we expect from our skin when we decide to get off birth control?

    Mostly, experts acknowledge your skin might break out for an extended period of time, but it’s crucial to think about what your skin was like when you first got on contraception. Just as the body adapts to receiving hormones that will stimulate the ovaries and begin the process of ovulation again, you should expect that any skin issues you might have dealt with before your were on hormonal contraception to return. Dr. Sekhon says you may experience what she refers to as “rebound acne.”

    “Some women take birth control pills containing a special form of progesterone, which works to prevent acne by controlling the effects of testosterone on skin. When stopping this, they may experience ‘rebound acne’,” said Dr. Sekhon.

    Renée Rouleau, esthetician and founder of her eponymous skin care line, mimics this sentiment. “Many people go on birth control pills in an attempt to lessen breakout activity due to their bodies fluctuating hormones. There are fluctuations in androgen hormone levels right before and during a woman’s period that can stimulate sebaceous glands to produce excess oil,” said Rouleau. “Since oil encourages bacteria, along with dead cells in the pore lining, this can cause breakouts to occur. The pill can help reduce breakouts due to their effect on natural hormonal balance. However, when they go off of it, their body may return back to the way it was and breakouts can slowly start to appear,” she said.

    She clarifies that timing is key. If you went on the pill as a teen or to deal with adult acne, you may be in the clear if it’s been a few years. “Depending on how long someone has been on the pill, they may have outgrown the hormonal fluctuations so they very well may find that going off the pill does not make their breakouts return. It just varies by individual,” she said.

    When it comes to IUDs, if you experience acne after getting it inserted, you may actually benefit from the removal.

    “Hormonal IUDs may trigger acne for some women because they release progestin, an artificial form of the hormone progesterone, into the body,” said Rouleau. When progesterone levels are increased, androgenic hormones — like testosterone — can also increase in a woman’s body. Androgens cause acne by overstimulating oil glands. “By removing the IUD, you may experience fewer breakouts if you think your IUD may be the cause,” she said.

    Additionally, melasma is often called the “mask of pregnancy” because many women experience it for the first time when they’re carrying, due to the influx of hormones. Same can be said for getting on birth control.

    “When women are on the pill, a common side effect is to develop hyperpigmentation (brown patches) often above the upper lip, cheeks and forehead,” said Rouleau. “Going off the pill will allow that to fade and with the intervention of professional treatments such as peels, it can be fairly easy to get rid of.”

    How to Prepare Yourself For Getting Off Hormonal Birth Control

    To prepare yourself, expect a 6-12 month transition for your body after getting off contraception like the pill or an IUD. Dr. Sekhon advises it may take 3-6 months for your body to recover, especially if you’re trying to conceive. If you haven’t had your period after 6 months, she recommends getting an evaluation by a doctor to ensure there aren’t any further ovulation issues.

    For your skin, Dr. Samolitis explained it can also take several months to a year for your skin to get back to normal, which is where topical medications come into play.

    “If they want to do non-medical intervention, we have topical medications — like a prescription called Aczone,” she said. Ingredients like benzoyl peroxide and clindamycin, which are often used for teenage acne and can be irritating to the skin, do not work well for adult acne in women, according to Samolitis. “Aczone doesn’t have all those side effects. And it seems to work better for the purely inflammatory acne.”

    She also suggests over the counter topicals like Niacinamide — an ingredient we’re seeing more and more of. “This is something that’s cheap that you can buy at CVS or on Amazon — 500mg twice a day. As a bonus, it also reduces your risk of skin cancer.”

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    Rouleau suggests creating an environment for the skin where breakouts are less likely to occur by using gentle, non-drying products with an anti-microbial effect to allow less bacteria on the skin’s surface and within the pore.

    “You can also introduce a product that addresses the microbiome,” said Rouleau. “A product with prebiotics can be very helpful to add into a skincare routine. Simply put, prebiotics encourage our skin to produce more ‘good’ bacteria that can help balance the skin and fight acne.” She suggests products from her Rapid Response line, including the Detox Masque and Toner.

    Outside of a consistent-yet-gentle skin care routine and prescription options, it’s important to cut possible dietary triggers. Cut high glycemic, processed foods that may spike your insulin and can cause acne, as well as dairy — although Dr. Samolitis says that isn’t the case for everyone. Options like regular facials can help with clogged pores, and red light can deliver results for inflammation. If you’re looking to conceive and are dealing with breakouts, a new option on the market is Sebacia, an alternative to drugs like Accutane. It targets the oil gland and can help clear acne after three treatments without the harsh side effects. Samolitis offers the treatment at Facile.

    Together, these can help alleviate post-BC skin issues a little while your body recuperates, but ultimately time is your friend.

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    Prince Harry and Meghan Markle Helped Reveal the TIME 100 List of 2020

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    “Tonight reminds us of how important it is to watch out for each other, to care for each other and to inspire each other. We are incredibly proud to join you in this historic moment in time,” said Prince Harry.

    To reveal TIME’s annual list of the world’s most influential people, the magazine brought together prominent faces like Meghan Thee Stallion, Halsey, Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade yesterday for a virtual and socially distanced event.

    Aired on ABC, the broadcast also featured a special appearance from Prince Harry and Meghan Markle (who themselves were featured on the TIME 100 list in 2018). During the virtual event, which aired on National Voter Registration Day in the United States, the couple appealed to viewers to make sure to vote in the upcoming election.

    “We’re six weeks out from the election, and today is Voter Registration Day,” Markle said. “Every four years, we’re told, ‘This is the most important election of our lifetime.’ But this one is. When we vote, our values are put into action, and our voices are heard.”

    Prince Harry also encouraged people to be responsible with how they engage with each other online in the run-up to the election.

    “As we approach this November, it’s vital that we reject hate speech, misinformation and online negativity. What we consume, what we are exposed to, and what we engage with online, has a real effect on all of us.”

    Although it’s against protocol for members of the royal family to speak openly about politics, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex have been increasingly vocal since stepping down from their official roles as senior royals, encouraging people to be more civically engaged during the pandemic as well as during the surge of Black Lives Matter protests over the summer.

    In her remarks, Markle also encouraged the public to “honour those who gave us courage this year. Like the scientists, researchers and medical professionals who are leading the fight against COVID-19. Or the countless voices who are speaking out with passion and purpose against injustice and inequality and to those silently marching in solidarity, in peaceful protest to stand for what is just and what is right.”

    Harry and Meghan also recognized the importance of the work that the TIME 100 honourees are doing to create a better world in their communities around the globe. “Tonight reminds us of how important it is to watch out for each other, to care for each other and to inspire each other,” Harry said. “We are incredibly proud to join you in this historic moment in time.”

    See the full list of 2020’s TIME 100 honourees, which includes The Weeknd, Dapper Dan and Naomi Osaka, here.

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    How This Olympic Hopeful Learned Self-Love Through Her Sport

    As a child, Maya said she was extremely shy and had a hard time coming out of her shell. But track was the key to unlocking her personal power. “I was able to form lifelong friendships that helped me break out of my comfort zone,” she said. “Track’s impact on my life goes far beyond what I have accomplished athletically. It has given me opportunities I could have never imagined as a child. Because of track, I got the opportunity to leave my hometown of Toronto, Canada and move all the way to New York City by myself.”

    Track has also forced Maya to confront other aspects of herself that weren’t as pleasant, but that helped her grow as a person. “My struggles with my body image began when I first started running track at 15,” she said. “I thought in order to be successful, I had to be a certain size. These thoughts resulted in me taking extreme measures to make sure I fit the mold of what I believed a track athlete should look like.” Finally in her senior year of college, Maya sought the help of a therapist to work through some of these deep-rooted insecurities.

    “This is when I began my self-love journey,” said Maya. “I feel like a lot of female athletes struggle with their body image. On the track, we wear very revealing uniforms, and while they are designed to help enhance our performance, they don’t leave much to the imagination, and they open us up to all kinds of unwanted attention. The beauty of being an athlete is that there is no blueprint to what we should actually look like. I want every woman to know that athleticism looks different on everybody, and what is most important is our health. Each of us are all unique individuals, and our bodies reflect that.”

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    Michelle Obama Urges Young People To Vote: ‘Nothing Will Change Just By A Hashtag Or Protests’

    Fresh off her historic Emmys win for Euphoria, Zendaya joined forces with Michelle Obama on Instagram Live to urge young people to vote. The duo convened virtually on Tuesday for Obama’s Registered and Ready Instagram Takeover event, a day-long initiative for her When We All Vote organization.

    Obama began by acknowledging Zendaya’s victory, which made her only the second Black woman in history to win Outstanding Lead Actress in a Drama Series. “Congratulations, Emmy winner, fabulous one,” Obama remarked, revealing that she had binged Euphoria. “I watched it, girl. I watched every episode. I’m so proud of you. Well, you’re winning Emmys and encouraging voter participation. You are a fashion icon. You’re doing it all.”

    Conversation quickly turned to the power of young people protesting against racial inequality, a topic Zendaya touched on in her acceptance speech. “I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, I’m very inspired by my peers who have continuously
    been out in the streets doing good work and I think we should all honor that,” Zendaya said about the importance of voting in 2020. “And just all the history that has gotten into making sure that our vote counts, it matters. Now is as important a time as any to make sure that your voice is heard.”

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    Obama agreed with Zendaya, and said people of all ages should take the spirit poured into protesting with them to the polls on November 3. “A thing we have to remember is that protests are one part of what it takes to make change,” she explained. “And if we don’t follow-up those protests by going and voting, all of that hard work will go to waste and I don’t want to see that for your generation. To have worked this hard to use your voice in the streets and not to see that follow through in the election, would be just a critical mistake.

    So for all you young people who were outraged by what you saw over the summer and it compelled you into the streets, take that same energy and use it to compel you to vote. Because nothing will change just by a hashtag or protests. I wish that were so because your generation is great at that. But in this democracy, the only thing that matters is what you do on election day.”

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    Zendaya became the youngest Emmy winner in the history of her category on Sunday, so Obama made sure to motivate any Gen Z viewers who may have been watching their chat on Instagram. “You guys have an instinct about what isn’t working, who is gaslighting you, who you can trust, what the direction you want the country to go in,” she said, urging them not to get confused by long ballot measures. “You know in your hearts. You don’t have to even research that to know how you feel. You just need to not be intimidated by the process.”

    The former First Lady later added, “Don’t ever stop protesting, don’t ever stop making your voices heard in the streets. Don’t ever stop using social media and a hashtag to get your points across. You just have to couple that with voting too.”

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    When You Buy a Coat from This Toronto-Based Brand, You’ll Help Plant Trees Across Canada

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    Here’s how Sentaler is helping protect Canada’s forests for future generations.

    Looking for a reason to buy a new winter coat – besides just really wanting a new one for the new season? Well, Toronto-based outerwear brand Sentaler is giving you an excellent one this winter with the brand announcing today it is launching a new long-term charitable initiative called “Forests for the Future.” From today, for every coat purchased through the brand’s website or at its Toronto flagship, Sentaler will donate funds to Forest Recovery Canada and Forest Ontario’s 50 Million Tree Program to support the organizations’ large-scale tree planting initiatives.

    On why the brand – which recently launched a luxe new scarf – has introduced the partnership, president and creative director, Bojana Sentaler said in a release, “Raising awareness for our clients and followers of just how important forests are for a green and healthy future is very important to me.” She added, “The health of our ecosystems, economies and communities are heavily impacted by the health of our forests and I want to help lead the charge for change and grow healthy forests for the future.”

    In a personal note shared via the brand’s website, the designer noted how she has reconnected to nature over the past few months and the impact that has had. “While I have always enjoyed being outdoors, it is over these past few months that by rediscovering the forest, I have consciously become aware of everything that our earth gives us, and just how little we give back.” Sentaler calls her interactions with nature “green therapy” adding, “Sitting in the forest, feeling the sun warm my skin, listening to the music of the wilderness, and taking deep breaths of cool fresh air, it occurred to me what a difference one tree makes. A tree is a symbol of hope. A tree creates oxygen. A tree improves water quality. A tree creates habitat for wildlife. And most importantly, a tree absorbs carbon, a key component in fighting the effects of climate change.”

    Wanting to ensure that future generations also get to experience a green planet is the driving force behind the new initiative. “The time to act is now,” Sentaler writes, “Alone, we are just one tree. But together, we are a forest. And together we can help create the forests of the future.”

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    Sleep In and Still Fit Your Workout in With These 20-Minute Ab Workout Videos on YouTube

    Raise your hand if you’ve ever skipped a workout to sleep in. Or to drink wine. Or to go shopping, call your mom, clean the house. Trust me, I have done all of those things, too. Sometimes, the energy to work-out and then shower afterward is just too much to handle but, of course, the benefits of exercise are numerous, even if you can only fit in a few minutes a day. For the days when I’m feeling extra un-motivated, I like to turn on a 20-minute ab workout video on YouTube — they’re short and sweet, but have you burning hundreds of active calories and working up your core strength in no time. It’s not just about crunches — you’ll be doing bicycles, planks, knee pulls, leg raises, and more moves that you will definitely feel the next day. Ahead, you’ll find a selection of 20-minute ab workout videos to stream, so you can hit that snooze button and still fit in a little exercise before work.